So the last couple of days I've been feeling under the weather with a sore throat and a bit congested. Today I text dh (who had the day off with lo) to say that I felt ropey and couldn't wait for the day to end. When I got home he asked me how I was and I said I felt very tired and a bit dizzy and that I thought I was coming down with something. I then snuggled up to him on the sofa while lo played around us.
Dh usually cooks but tonight I suggested a take away. Asked what we should give lo and decided on pasta so went to boil the kettle. Dh just sat on the sofa on his phone so I ended up doing los's dinner, feeding him and then tidying his toys all while dh was on his phone on the sofa.
Everyday I do lo's bath and give him a bedtime story. I mention it's nearly bath time and dh says 'who's doing the bath?', I say 'well I can do it but I think it would be nice if you did it as I feel unwell'. He's asked why I'm off with him and I've said that if the shoe were on the other foot and he was unwell I'd have told him to sit down and I'll deal with lo. He's snapped back at me that he's not a mind reader and I only had to ask if I wanted him to do stuff. I know this is true but AIBU to have wanted him to have just taken a proactive approach and just look after lo? I mean I can't even remember the last time I was ill and when he came home with a headache a couple of weeks ago I sent him straight up to lie down in bed and got him a wet flannel for his head and completely saw to lo. I'm not a mood reader either but when I see dh is ill I want to look after him - he doesn't have to ask. Seemingly I do!
Bah, sorry for the rant! Feeling crappy and probably over sensitive!