H2B didn't make me toast.

[Georgeofthejungle]

So H2B says 'I fancy something to eat' and I said I was hungry too and would like some toast.

Me - I'd love some toast if your getting something.
Him - I always make the toast
Me - I made dinner. I always make dinner. If you make the dinner, I'd make the toast.
Him - ok well I'll make dinner on Friday.
Me - fine

20 mins goes past

Him - I think I'd like some banana and peanut butter on my toast
Me - help yourself. I asked you half an hour ago for some toast and you've just sat there!
Him - you didn't actually ask me
Me - I'm not going beg you for toast! Forget it.

I'm now in bed sulking.

I am aware this is completely trivial and ridiculous but AIBU?!

OP on your wedding day it will not be your husband who makes the first toast.

It is a tad unreasonable, but then we have all had daft arguments. Go, make up with him.

Laying in bed with the hump and hes down stairs it only builds resentment - go pop four slices in and sit with him

Be sure to have yourself a cooked lunch on Friday, because as sure as eggs is eggs, he won't make Friday night's dinner.

We have a variation of this conversation in our house at least 8 times a month.

I'm with you OP. You make dinner, other person makes any follow up snacks / tea run. Tis just logical. It's practically science.

Now I want toast.

I think you are both unreasonable. He said he'd make dinner on Friday, and thought you'd agreed to make toast now on that promise.

But life is too short honestly. Make up, make toast.

(But come up with an agreement for future toast making duties.)

Just finished a bowl of fruit & yoghurt trying to be all healthy and now you fuckers are making me have a cheese & ham toastie

Also - toast
Toast toast toast
Doesn't sound like a word anymore

I have toast now! With marmite!

I realise that I'm basically now off-topic but I think YANBU. He should be making toast tonight, because you made dinner. If he sticks to his word and makes dinner on Friday, then maybe you'll start putting out on the toast front. You start delivering toast on top of dinner, where's his motivation to start making dinner?

Having said all that, it sounds like a frustrating miscommunication and you should probably work on that, yanno.

Also: TOAST!

This thread inspired me to have a tin of Tom soup and bread roll. Was going to have cheese on toast instead of a roll but couldn't be bothered!

Exactly Punt

Don't fall for 'jam tomorrow' OP. 'Jam on Friday' is even worse!!

Blacktea i loves marmite. I thought there might be a weeny scraping left. But there wasn't.

Cut up the cheese into little squares and add it to the tomato soup!

Food of Gods...

Off to find some blasted gluten free toast...sigh.

On the basis that unless you have to go to the shops to buy the bread and maybe butter and whatever else you want on it you should both do the MN thing and both LTB.
[Toast toast toast
Doesn't sound like a word anymore grin]
But it was a record!
Bread roll, lightly toasted then big chunk of cheese inside and microwave together (to melt the cheese. Maybe a touch of marmite served with tin of tomato soup.

Oh no hockit

Sending you virtual marmite (nothing like as good as real marmite obviously)

All this over toast

FFS all of you! Now I want toast. I can almost smell it I want it so much!

I'm at work so not going to happen but for a moment I thought I was at my mum's and it was supper time and there might just be toast on offer

Huffing over fucking toast?

I was too lazy to go and get cheese! I'll do the chunks in soup next time... and marmite, that SO makes sense! Wish I had another tin now just to experiment. I could have some cheese on it'd own though

I feel like I have stumbled upon a toast appreciation society.

Can't believe no one has said HIBU for wanting bananas and peanut butter on toast!

Would you like to join? We have a rota so we know whose turn it is to make the toast

OK now I'm going to be singing this all night!