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Medical evidence of 3 day school absence

36 replies

starpatch · 20/03/2017 11:26

Schools in my area require some kind of evidence from doctors for an absence of 3 days or more (appt. card with do) AIBU in thinking this a waste of GPs time? I don't always consult a doctor when my DS is ill- if I know what's wrong and he doesn't need treatment I wouldn't bother a GP. Feeling sensitive about this as school have just sent me an absence letter for a one day absence- I left a message on the answermachine as directed by the school but it wasn't noted down apparently. If he is sick I'm tempted to just get a GPs appt. but then cancel it that way at least I would only be wasting the (very busy) receptionists time.

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TheNaze73 · 20/03/2017 17:52

I can see why they are doing it but, it seems a bit draconian. They're trying to weed out the people who expect a free education, yet take unauthorised absence.

TheOnlyColditz · 20/03/2017 17:54

ALl I do about this is say, clearly, when I ring them in sick "If you require medical evidence for absence, please feel free to contact his GP"

I don't take him to the GP unless he needs to go, but hey, that's their problem.

Weatherforecaster · 20/03/2017 18:34

I don't think people realise how much pressure schools are under to get attendance above/around 96%. Ofsted, governors, County, school improvement partners etc will challenge every school on their attendance and schools can fail due to attendance. Failing schools = forced academisation, families leaving the school, loss of funding, intensified scrutiny etc.

We're damned of we don't do anything and damned from others if we do.

Sirzy · 20/03/2017 18:37

So the answer is to put more pressure on the NHS which you may have noticed is also pretty stretched?

Witchend · 20/03/2017 18:38

Why can't schools start trusting parents again

I expect they would trust parents if it wasn't for the number that say "oh yes, they had D&V" and they come back looking suspiciously tanned and talking about their holiday.
Blame those parents.

IamFriedSpam · 20/03/2017 18:39

School is being ridiculous. My DS had a funny tummy and threw up a few times on a Tuesday he was fine Wednesday and Thursday but have to keep him off 48 hours after he last threw up so he was at home. Why on earth would I waste a GP appointment for that?

sonlypuppyfat · 20/03/2017 18:43

I had a really long thread on this last month, DD needed a blood test and school wanted me to screenshot the blood form and email it to them. I told them no

Ameliablue · 20/03/2017 18:46

That's ridiculous GPS say don't go to doctors with things like winter vomiting bug as it just spreads them more but you'd expect to be of at least 3 days as one being sick and 48 hours exclusion.

Familyof3or4 · 20/03/2017 19:47

Providing a note for this is not an NHS service do doctors have a right to charge for it or refuse to do it.
They are likely to do one or another of these otherwise they would be asked constantly for notes.

StillDrivingMeBonkers · 20/03/2017 19:54

They cant force a sick note. Legally you have 7 calendar days to 'self certify '. I did discuss this with my Dr in passing and his comment was to tell them to take a running jump.

As a private sick certificate would cost 30 or 40 quid, you may give your permission for the school to obtain one, and pay for it. I have found that tends to void any conversation about sick leave.

OreoDream · 20/03/2017 20:42

As a private sick certificate would cost 30 or 40 quid, you may give your permission for the school to obtain one, and pay for it. I have found that tends to void any conversation about sick leave

Yes, that's another good option.

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