Sorry to be vague but don't want to out myself. Does anyone have any advice on how to get over resenting someone? I can't bear DH's sister. When we first got together she emotionally manipulated him into selling his flat to give her the money (her house was going to be repossessed) and I can't quite forgive her for this. He wasn't forced into it but she guilt trips him a lot. I feel she infringes on a lot of our boundaries too, silly things like always wanting to use our car and adding herself a profile onto our Netflix account. When I see her she's lovely to me and I can't work out of she's a nice person or not. I think she is but she's very clingy and needy with DH and he dotes on her. I don't think I'm jealous of her it's more I'm irritated by her and wish she would stand on her own two feet instead of always relying on DH, she feels like a burden to me but I know that's horrible as she's his sister. Really nothing will change she is single and says she always wants to be, I need advice on how to be OK with her in my head as loads of little things that shouldn't are irritating me and I think it's a build up of resentment. Speaking to DH is like banging my head against a brick wall he would do anything for her and can't stand me questioning anything.