OH has a step mum who seems to be up herself, 2 faced and thinks she's so much better than everyone else just because she has a bit more money than the rest of us.
She constantly sits there slagging me, my mum and other family members off but will sit there pretending she's all nice when you see her. She will also drink so much that she starts fights with everyone and then makes out she hasn't done anything wrong the next day.
When she found out I was pregnant (obviously was going to be one of the first being married to OH dad) she managed to tell everyone, when I didn't want to make a big deal out of it.
She has never really got on with OH either, and kicked him out now god knows how many times when he was younger.
I haven't really bothered talking to her for a good year and a half now. I have never been rude to her but just don't see any point in having contact with her as she seems to come out with sarky and horrible comments every time.
She is now trying to make out she wants to be a massive part of the family again (although she was calling me every name under the sun when she found out) and is offering to buy things (the cot) etc.
I received a message the other day saying "get some advice off someone who actually knows what they're doing, and I will buy a cot" (she doesn't actually have kids and any kid in the family will not go to her). OH is now making out she isn't really as bad as what I'm saying and that I should let her get things now she's trying.. but I know it's all an act to make out shes had to get the big things and will just rub it in everyone else's face. I didn't reply to the message as I genuinely had nothing to say.
This is my first baby and I don't really want someone I don't get along with to buy the bigger things. I've told OH that obviously because she's married to his dad, that I wouldn't ever stop them coming to see baby when he's here and if they want to buy outfits etc then I don't mind but he's saying I'm unreasonable.
I probably sound pathetic but she does my head in!! X