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To encourage DD to fake a sporting injury during her GCSEs so as she can use a computer?

83 replies

BigSandyBalls2015 · 16/03/2017 14:29

DD(16) took her first set of mock GCSEs last Dec - she had injured her hand during a football match and had two fingers taped up on her writing hand. So she was put in a separate room with a computer to type her mocks and did better than she expected.

Currently doing a second set of mocks, with everyone else in the main hall, writing instead of a computer and has found it much harder.

So would I be unreasonable to encourage a fake injury in May?

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Berthatydfil · 16/03/2017 14:29

I assume you are joking?

BigSandyBalls2015 · 16/03/2017 14:29

Should have added, no point in asking school about it, I know they won't allow it unless she is 'injured'.

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TwentyCups · 16/03/2017 14:30

Yes, very. I'm sure a lot of students would improve this way to - but the exam is marked as being handwritten - injury/disability/special needs exempted.

BigSandyBalls2015 · 16/03/2017 14:31

Deadly serious. Why?

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MovingOnUpMovingOnOut · 16/03/2017 14:32

Yeah totally fine but you'll need to make that hand really look properly injured.

Have you considered smashing her fingers with a hammer? Or maybe shutting her hand in the car door a couple of times?

Thegirlinthefireplace · 16/03/2017 14:33

Of course yabu. My son Would find it easier if he took his revision notes in to the exam, whbu?

BarbarianMum · 16/03/2017 14:34

Because it's cheating?

LIZS · 16/03/2017 14:34

Use of laptop etc is to level the playing field, not to gain an advantage Hmm

Tissunnyupnorth · 16/03/2017 14:34

AIBU to encourage my child to cheat in her GCSE's? Er....yes.

ShowMePotatoSalad · 16/03/2017 14:35

So you want your daughter to lie so she has an unfair advantage in her exams?

And you're serious?

WOW.

HattiesBackpack · 16/03/2017 14:36

Are you on glue ?

bibliomania · 16/03/2017 14:38

Of course YABU. It's attempting to gain an unfair academic advantage through deception. How can your moral compass be that badly off?

Armadillostoes · 16/03/2017 14:38

YABVU-Not only is cheating very wrong in itself, it is a horrible message to send to you DD. It is basically telling her that what she is genuinely capable of is not good enough.

mrsmalcolmreynolds · 16/03/2017 14:38

As PP have said, this would be cheating so YWBVU! Why on earth should your DD get an environment more conducive to concentrating etc. without a genuine medical reason? HmmConfusedAngry

ilovesooty · 16/03/2017 14:39

FFS. Just when I think I can't see someone with more appalling ethics.

LolaTheDarkdestroyer · 16/03/2017 14:40

I've heard it all now. How would that be fair on others? So wrong.

Hogs · 16/03/2017 14:40

Aside from the fact it's outright cheating and wholly unfair to the other students, I believe that your daughter would be disqualified instantly if she was discovered and her result would be "U".

PhilODox · 16/03/2017 14:41

Was it the computer or the small room setting that made the difference? If there's Evidence you cannot request small room for final exam, but you're cutting it v fine!

PenguinLife · 16/03/2017 14:41

Yabvvvvvvu, encouraging her to lie to gain an unfair advantage Hmm Confused

PhilODox · 16/03/2017 14:42

Hogs- in fact, all exams sat with that board would be Us.

user1476185294 · 16/03/2017 14:43

What is it about using the computer that she feels helps her? Then maybe try work with that so she can sit the exams with everyone else. Maybe being alone was less stressful/anxiety causing so maybe learning breathing exercises or Bachs rescue remedy or similar to take the edge of. Or finding a more comfortable pen to write in etc.

Blossomdeary · 16/03/2017 14:44

I put my arm in a sling for the French oral mocks and learned a spiel about it - worked like a dream!

Hogs · 16/03/2017 14:45

Thanks PhilODox - and rightfully so!

BigSandyBalls2015 · 16/03/2017 14:46

Okay, okay, almost unanimous responses Grin - I admit I'm getting het up about it and possibly can't see the wood for the trees.

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IDontLoveGlitterGlitterLovesMe · 16/03/2017 14:56

YABVVVVU.

Encouraging your daughter to fake an illness would result in you being a liar and a cheat.
Your child would also be a liar and a cheat.

You are teaching your child to lie and cheat.