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Tell me I'm worrying about nothing

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Babybloooos · 15/03/2017 11:01

I have a DS who is 2.6. His conception was a surprise. I hadn't been on the pill for about a year and my DH and I had been using the withdrawal method and avoiding sex around my fertile time. Anyway, I feel pregnant with DS and I just love being a mum. We're now thinking about trying for number two and I worried I'll struggle to conceive as I seem to meet people who have struggled with secondary infertility. It's really made me worry that I'll not have a second baby easily or quickly and the fact that I can't really tell if I fell pregnant with DS quickly because we weren't trying just makes me worry. Am I being unreasonable? I'm not sure why this has worried me so much Sad

OP posts:
Wishiwasmoiradingle2017 · 15/03/2017 11:04

You won't know until you try!!
There is plenty of time to worry when you have 2 dc to look after!!
The making them is meant to be the fun bit.

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Babybloooos · 15/03/2017 11:09

I know. I'm just a natural born worrier and I think because I want it so much im focusing too much on it

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peachgreen · 15/03/2017 12:20

YABVU. You fell pregnant accidentally. There's absolutely nothing to suggest you'll have any problems the second time around. You haven't even started trying yet. This is a non-problem.

JoJoSM2 · 15/03/2017 12:21

Just focus on having fun whilst trying lol Whatever will be, will be and it's out of your control.

ShuttyTown · 15/03/2017 12:28
Biscuit
Eminybob · 15/03/2017 12:38

You might be, you might not be, you won't know until you start trying, so there's not point worrying about it now.

I didn't worry about it, but we are currently ttc no 2 and it isn't happening for us, despite trying for a year. I am under investigation with the doctor at the moment to try and figure out why.

Secondary infertility does happen, but so does people going on to have multiple children. I can't see why you are worrying now.

kimnews · 15/03/2017 13:02

YABU to be worrying about this before you've even started trying. Save the worrying for when you're 2 years down the line and no sign of a BFP.

highinthesky · 15/03/2017 13:06

OP, worrying certainly isn't help you conceive!

Don't forget to enjoy the journey.

kimann · 15/03/2017 13:10

I would be more worried about how I would cope with two little ones (I have an almost 3 year old and a 6 month old - I'm knackered!!!) Grin good luck!

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