Tell me I'm worrying about nothing

[Babybloooos]

I have a DS who is 2.6. His conception was a surprise. I hadn't been on the pill for about a year and my DH and I had been using the withdrawal method and avoiding sex around my fertile time. Anyway, I feel pregnant with DS and I just love being a mum. We're now thinking about trying for number two and I worried I'll struggle to conceive as I seem to meet people who have struggled with secondary infertility. It's really made me worry that I'll not have a second baby easily or quickly and the fact that I can't really tell if I fell pregnant with DS quickly because we weren't trying just makes me worry. Am I being unreasonable? I'm not sure why this has worried me so much

You won't know until you try!!
There is plenty of time to worry when you have 2 dc to look after!!
The making them is meant to be the fun bit.

I know. I'm just a natural born worrier and I think because I want it so much im focusing too much on it

YABVU. You fell pregnant accidentally. There's absolutely nothing to suggest you'll have any problems the second time around. You haven't even started trying yet. This is a non-problem.

Just focus on having fun whilst trying lol Whatever will be, will be and it's out of your control.

You might be, you might not be, you won't know until you start trying, so there's not point worrying about it now.

I didn't worry about it, but we are currently ttc no 2 and it isn't happening for us, despite trying for a year. I am under investigation with the doctor at the moment to try and figure out why.

Secondary infertility does happen, but so does people going on to have multiple children. I can't see why you are worrying now.

YABU to be worrying about this before you've even started trying. Save the worrying for when you're 2 years down the line and no sign of a BFP.

OP, worrying certainly isn't help you conceive!

Don't forget to enjoy the journey.

I would be more worried about how I would cope with two little ones (I have an almost 3 year old and a 6 month old - I'm knackered!!!) good luck!