To want a new bed as DH has shagged an x girlfriend in ours!!

[Twinkie1]

It was before he met me so not as dramatic as it sounds - but I have an issue with this - I want a new bed - we are married and have never had a bed that he hasn't shagged someone esle in!!

He has just said that if we don't get what we want for our haouse it means we will be broke and I may have to do with the bed for a little longer!!

Over my dead body will we - even if I have to put it on my credit card we will be getting a new bed..........

I am so disappointed that he doesn't think this is an issue - I am sure if I had wanted to bring my ex marital bed with me he would have had a coronary!!

Yes, I think you're being unreasonable. Never even occurred to me to mind about this sort of thing when I moved in with dh.

There was a rug too but I burnt it!! DH is not that exciting to do it on the table or anything and I have had a new kitchen and dining room table and sofa too since we have been together - thing is this is really not like me - I am quite balanced about these things usually - just gets to me for some reason.

Have found a house - will know in a few hours whether we have sold ours for a good price or a crap price though - if it is the crap price I am out with the credit card tonight!! Seen a beautiful bed in ILVA that I want and have also seen one for DD because she must have a new bed too - she has a crappy slide bed and I am sure DS is going to dive from it oned ay and break something!!

I could do with a new fanjo after 2 kids though - that would be a nice idea - am perfectly happy with DH's todger though don't want to change that at all!!

LOL.
yes, my 2 did some damage down there!!!
Wasn't the same at all unil just recently and dd2 is 7 mths soon.
Still not quite right.
Interesting idea!!!

Sobernow - I have now managed to accidentally drop all of the horrible mugs DH chose with his ex (tenants managed to deal with the rest of the crockery ) - it has taken me 12 years, though!

I'd get a new mattress and bedding but I'd have done it before now IMHO. I hate sleeping in hotel beds for similar reasons.

I think you're being ridiculous. When I first moved in with now-DH, he was living in his friend's spare room and had shagged at least a couple of other girlfriends in that bed. When we moved in together, we just took whatever bed was in the rented flat - and we both brought our bedding from our previous relationships/marriages with us. I only bought new when it wore out - in fact we're still using some of it 15 years later. I might feel jealous about other things, but a bed is a bed is a bed... I mean he's probably had his tongue all over her genitals, and vice versa.

You literally burned a rug because they'd fucked on it? How? Where? This is batshit.

This thread is from 2007, read the dates people.

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I see your point ,but what about going on holiday? How many people have been shagging on the mattress there I wonder!

Wouldn't bother me in the slightest tbh.

It's not something I'd even have thought about.

Don’t really get it, you’ve no issue his cock was in her but take issue with the bed was the geographical location for it? Ok,..don’t get it myself. But ok.

I think OP managed to pay off new bed already.

Nor me.

Jeeze , didn’t realise the date on this altho wonder if he’s shagged somebody else on the bed they got 15 years ago or do beds even last that long. 🤭

Zombie

I agree. I did the same as soon as I moved in with my now husband. Got rid of the bed and the mattress, paid it off on the CC over a few months.

It was before he met me so not as dramatic as it sounds

Thank heavens for that!

i was going to suggest that what you needed was a new husband.

Oh bugger- didn't check date.

As you were, people. Nothing to see here.

Move along.

When I got married, 1969, it was all a bit different to now so we never lived together. We got a flat and kitted it out ready for the wedding, some stuff we bought, some was resents like my mum bought us a sofa, and some was secondhand stuff we were given. We bought the bed and it was made up ready for when we moved in. One week after the wedding a colleague of his phoned me and told me we needed to talk. Turned out they'd been having a fling for months and she'd slept in our bed in our flat before I had. I still don't know why I stayed with him for 14 years and had to kids.

I look back at teenage me and I feel so sorry for her.

resents is presents and we had two kids. The arthritis in my hands is getting worse.

Oh no I didn't check either. Feel a fool now as well as arthritic. Well I suppose I was a fool in 1969 so not much changes.

No wonder the planets going to the dogs, talk about waste of resources!