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SanitysSake · 08/03/2017 15:31

I made an enquiry about a specific job with a recruitment agency. A mid-high level job (or so it was described). They replied, said that based on my career history, I was most certainly the type of person they wanted applying for said job. I asked for a better job spec. More granularity on T&C and pay. They said what they had in their possession was it, but they were waiting for additional information from the employer.

They were very keen for my to immediately apply (which would have required filling out a plethora of forms, resubmitting a full CV and lots of other agency gumpf to their website) and hounded me a bit about it. Time consuming and dull and not something I wanted to do (all my information on their website is not something I'm comfortable with) unless I could fully evaluate the position beforehand.

Rather than waste anyones time, I said I'd hold fire on the application until I got more information. She said she'd get the information before I was due to fly to the Middle East and that she'd appreciate my coming back to her as soon as possible. As it transpired, she didn't get the information to me until I was two thirds through my business trip. With the time in the evenings available, I reviewed the information and concluded, politely, that the position wasn't entirely right for me - but that if there were other positions within the new set-up of the company - I might. After all that hounding, I got nil response. I subsequently removed my abbreviated CV from the recruitment website as I wasn't interested in being approached for jobs that were clearly inappropriate and asked their wider agency to remove any reference to me. This they confirmed they'd do.

Fast forward 4 months and I get an email from said recruiter. Asking me if I'd know anyone who would have the skill set to fulfil this new job she had within the same company. A technical, but a fairly subordinate job role.

AIBU to think it's a bit cheeky that she couldn't be bothered to reply to me before - and now she asks me to help - clearly indicating that i'm still on file somewhere? After I'd specifically asked to be removed entirely from the system?

I can appreciate the initiative and the drive, but can't help but think it's more than a bit cheeky!

I'm currently wondering how to respond... or not...

Grin
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Hoppinggreen · 08/03/2017 17:12

I've dealt with many many recruiters over the past 20 years, sometimes as a client and sometimes as a candidate.
I've liked exactly 2 of them!!

CoraPirbright · 08/03/2017 17:20

Was this a recruiter or a headhunter? If the former, I think its a numbers game for them and I wouldn't be too bothered as you are probably one of hundreds on her database. If the latter then, if it was really easy for you to respond, I would. To quote Sigourney in Working Girl "today's junior prick, tomorrow's senior partner" and you never know - you might need them one day! I used to work for a headhunter and we made a note of who was really pissy with us!!

WizardOfToss · 08/03/2017 17:24

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expatinscotland · 08/03/2017 17:26

I'd not bother answering.

SanitysSake · 08/03/2017 18:43

Ooh, they are all sneaky McBeaky's, aren't they?!

CoraPirbright I did wonder that myself about keeping people sweet.. Then I realised if she didn't have the wherewithal to recognise that what I'd responded with might've actually helped her and b) that it is generally courteous to acknowledge someones email, even if it's in the negative - then I wouldn't want to have any dealings with her anyway!

She can bite me Grin

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TiredMumToTwo · 08/03/2017 18:48

That's recruiters for you, I fell into recruitment at the beginning of my career & left after a year as I hated it. I am now a contractor so deal with recruiters on a weekly basis - they will literally stop at nothing to get that placement - to make sure they hit their targets & get the commission. Pissing people off is just a natural bi-product.

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