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To think that there should be a cut-off point in the day/week when a primary school shouldn't be sending out emails?

37 replies

Rivanshine · 08/03/2017 09:37

Our school has been using the 'Parent-mail' system since last year and it all started out well and good with us receiving the end of week newsletter and the odd reminder or notice of something extra happening at school in the near future etc.

However nowadays, and with increasing regularity, emails are being sent out from teachers during the evening/night (i.e. 9pm+) for extra things required (or even extra homework being set last minute) for the following school day. Sometimes we get them during the weekends too. Not all of the parents have (or want!) regular access to these emails and.......shock horror.......some parents have already gone to bed or are even working at the time but the school doesn't seem to realise this and those children whose parents aren't in the loop are turning up without the required contributions/pieces of work/items.

AIBU to think that the kids, parents & teachers should be allowed to have a 'shut off and decompress' amount of time each day to themselves? If only for sanity's sake?

Another thing that the school has also started is the use of 'Google Classroom' to set & submit homework. However we're not thrilled about the children publicly messaging each-other on their main classroom page where sometimes it's got a bit too competitive & nasty and the teacher has even had to step in (online!) to calm it all down! A couple of the other mums have said that they're still going in to ask for a paper copy of the homework each time because they haven't got laptops or desktop computers at home and apparently they've been questioned as to why they don't have the required technology before being reluctantly handed a print-out!

Anyone else experiencing a similar situation with their kids schools? Brew

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Room1o1 · 08/03/2017 10:48

If anything appears in the middle of the weekend, I would ignore it. I plan the weekends based on kids activities, homework, parties. If we are away, I am not coming home urgently because something just crept up.

I would absolutely speak to the school and ask for reasonable notice.

Rivanshine · 08/03/2017 10:53

Don't get me wrong here.......

Our DD's school is lovely and the teachers are really good at getting the best out of the children but I just think that with all the best intentions in the world.......isn't it a good thing to switch off for a few hours after school & work, have a slight rest & recharge yourself at home ready to get up and do it all again the next day?

That goes for all the staff as well as the children & parents - homework permitting! Wink Brew

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BertieBotts · 08/03/2017 13:52

We-ell, you can get an external keyboard for a tablet for under a tenner, if you do need to type things on them. Printing seems a bit backwards to me if it's available online I would expect to be able to submit it online.

I do see what you're saying, and absolutely things shouldn't be added at the last minute but I think sometimes people give up on tech without really trying and it can be a useful resource.

Homework should absolutely be predictable, not randomly occurring. They are primary school kids not adults working in companies.

IamFriedSpam · 08/03/2017 13:56

It's fine to send emails at 5am if the teachers want to but they shouldn't assume that anyone will read or be able to act on them unless they give sufficient notice. It does depend what the request is - my DC's school often text last minute reminders but it's usually stuff we've been told about before and not difficult to sort out (e.g. Y3 wear PE kit into school today) and they're just giving a last minute reminder which is fine.

Bloopbleep · 08/03/2017 14:02

Emails are easy to ignore until a more appropriate time but dd's school sends text messages relentlessly. On a Sunday night about 9pm we tend to get three or four of them and one is /always/ a correction of one of the others.

This is in addition to the multiple texts through the week sometimes just the headteacher thanking parents/pupils for presents etc.

specialsubject · 08/03/2017 14:03

The assumption is obvious - that everyone is permanently glued to their phone and so sees emails instantly.

Not a practice that should be encouraged.

Trifleorbust · 08/03/2017 14:43

Of course there should be no emails sent out in the evenings with reminders for the following day.

I would, however, argue that teachers regularly sending out emails at 9pm might deserve some sympathy - if they are doing this because they do not have time now the school day, their workload is the issue.

I hate online homework systems anyway. Half the kids don't check it ("Miss, I couldn't log in/see it") and half want a paper copy anyway. Drives me nuts.

MuseumOfCurry · 08/03/2017 14:50

I'd just tell the teacher in a friendly way that you can't guarantee any work emailed in the evening will be completed on the same day, because you might miss it.

Surely they'd be forced them to make explicit a very unreasonable policy if they disagreed.

BeyondThePage · 08/03/2017 15:07

We have a gadget curfew of 7pm in our house. All of us... (lead by example and all that)

Anyone wants anything the next day needs to let me know before 7. I will answer the phone if it rings, but that is about it.

Allthewaves · 08/03/2017 15:17

Ds primary have electronic reading books and homework system and school msg app.

Reading books are brilliant - far more interesting and varied than paper options - comic books and all sorts

Hw system the kids can't interact just submit homework - can use smart phone or tablet too (teachers are happy to give paper versions but I often get dc to write hw, take photo on my phone to submit as we don't have tablet/lap top yet)

Msg system us amazing and not abused. Just standard newsletters, reminders of days off ect and lovely photos of the kids doing classroom activities

ClarkWGriswold · 08/03/2017 15:26

God no way! This would drive me bonkers. I am hyper-organised so the possibility of missing something would not sit well with me. My DC are in bed by 7pm (5 and 3) so would not be able to complete a piece of hw sent at 9pm.

My DDs (reception) school uses Parent Mail and a school app but it is all very organised. We have a set day when hw is given and a set day for when it's due in. Ditto library book, PE etc. I have to work like this as DH and I work long hours (although I'm only 3 days a week) so every minute counts. I am also very often in bed by 9pm myself!

Oblomov17 · 08/03/2017 15:40

Teachers can email at any time. Midnight or 3am if it suits. It's the lack of planning and notice time that's the problem.

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