Ok, little back story, I have 2 kids, a preschooler and a late teen. I live hundreds of miles from most of my family and friends and aside from in laws, work friends & mums at groups I am generally quite isolated here.
I have been invited on a girls holiday with friends from my hometown, holiday was originally planned for 3/4 day break and so I was keen to go, I felt this was manageable and not too cheeky ( I have never left dh to care for either child alone) but days have now increased to a week and I now feel I couldn't go as it's too long.
I am tired, I really miss my friends, feel a little under appreciated etc so was treating it as a bit of a reward (in my head, you know to help with the guilt)!
Dh is ok with me going and he'd manage just fine.
Would AIBU to just go?