DS is turning five. He has some level of SEN which we are working with. He tends to keep himself to himself in class so teacher suggested would be better to invite small group of kids to help him play. He went to whole class party on weekend and didn't open up until right at the end when everything was finished.
I agree with teacher, small party is better.
However, I don't know a lot of the mums/kids and none of them very well.
Teacher gave me ten names she thinks is good to invite.
DS has given three names not on that list. I've added one name that I know will be good for DS and myself as I know that mum the most and often chat (she's invited me for coffee etc) and her DS is very friendly towards DS.
Now I've added the three names DS chose and my one name it looks like I'm having a big party and leaving just a few kids out...
Should I listen to teacher or let DS pick ten names off the list and stick with that?
I'm very very stuck here. He's never had any sort of party since his 1st birthday and that was family only.
I feel incredibly bad leaving some kids out and it doesn't help that I don't know who's kids are who's for the most part.
I think DS should make a decision but Hes only given three names. I was thinking more like ten?
I suppose my question is aibu to ask the teachers advice and then ignore it? Or should I just stick with it and hope people don't shun DS if they're offended by the non invite?
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Figglesticks · 06/03/2017 11:07
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