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to have had a really good experience with my recent PIP assessment (Thanks in no small part to the post from the lovely ex PIP assessor and her/his post)

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barefoofdoctor · 02/03/2017 19:55

Not really an AIBU but.. Was utterly terrified before my recent PIP assessment (particularly having read the post by the ex-PIP assessor!), as in not eating, feeling suicidal, utterly hopeless as I have an 'invisible' illness caused by a very serious life threatening illness and massively botched treatment/repeated mis-diagnosis/shite treatment by the NHS (and also amazing treatment by the NHS - I am here! I am alive albeit a fucked up version. I swore I wouldn't claim PIP as couldn't deal with the stress (wouldn't sue the NHS as I don't think that's on) unless I was ever harassed over my ESA claim by the DWP, which happened after I was maliciously reported for benefit fraud amongst other things, by some vile ex-neighbours. As such, I put my claim in and was duly assessed. My assessor was absolutely lovely, not scripted at all, completely put me at my ease, so much so that I was slightly worried it was 'a trick!', I wasn't asked to perform anything I couldn't physically achieve and assessor was actually really insightful about my condition and future prognosis, telling me things I was previously unaware of and leaving me feeling genuinely more positive than I have since I fell ill.

I still doubted whether my claim would be successful having read the horror stories but found out last week that I have been awarded PIP which will make my life basically worth living and more than just existing, in constant pain and in a lesser form as the days and weeks and years progress. That is all really Not all assessors are horrendous and it isn't all doom and gloom though my assessor said that there are too many reports of mistreatment/lies and a broken system for them not to be true and confirmed what we know; that the system is extremely unfair and screwed, rotten to the core. But there is hope and who knows perhaps the reforms this system so desperately needs will take place one day soon.

Apologies if this is a bit garbled, I just needed to thank the Ex assessor and show that there are positive PIP application experiences out there, however few and far between.

OP posts:
LouisevilleLlama · 05/03/2017 03:42

AndNowItsSeven not really her and my dad are both old and need something reliable and it needs to be big because of fitting in a wheelchair at the minimum plus shopping or anything else for anything other than appointments plus my DM needs a spacious passengers seat due to her illness causing her lots of pa

LouisevilleLlama · 05/03/2017 03:47

Pain* if her legs for example are top cramped, plus with other costs that they'd have to pay it won't get far, also it doesn't help as she gets £1000 as she had only just really changed her car (which was lucky as her condition got worse) and she says she didn't know about PIP until she got the letter saying she was changing to PIP as she only got awarded it in mid 2013 and doesn't remember being told anything

JoffreyBaratheon · 09/03/2017 16:41

Yes, Tarragon, physios know far more about atypical autism than my son's old consultant, I'm sure. Smile

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