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AIBU?

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Friend making me feel bad for being happy

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Naemates · 25/02/2017 13:11

I have a friend who has been single her whole life, barely any dates, many many crushes. It was fine while I was single too but I'm now married and she makes me feel bad about it! Not intentionally I don't think, but I also don't think she thinks when she speaks either. How do I find her a man??!

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Naemates · 25/02/2017 18:29

Sorry, she literally text me today saying 'help me find a man',that was what kicked off my aibu. She is definitely not happily single, it's the thing she moans about the most. We are really good friends have been for 20+ years, it just feels like when we were both single(for a loooong time) all was good, and I've done wrong by changing that. It's not recent either, I've been married nearly three years.
She has done OLD and tried speaking to people in bars, she works from home so that's no help.
Probably more of a 'help' than aibu, but I was frustrated this morning Blush

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Jaagojaago · 25/02/2017 18:33

Again - how has she made you feel bad exactly?

TinselTwins · 25/02/2017 18:38

she literally text me today saying 'help me find a man'

I don't understand, how is that her making you feel bad about being married and not thinking before she speaks?

I don't see what's wrong with her text? Apart from it can be a bit tiresome if someone moans about the same thing all the time, I don't see that as her not accepting your married status?

WhereYouLeftIt · 25/02/2017 19:45

Your AIBU is about your friend making you feel bad. How does he make you feel bad?

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