Preparing to be flamed as am v stressed at the moment, and possibly a bit more highly strung than usual but looking for perspective.
DH is a great chap, all round good egg etc but if he's out for a night he loves to keep the party going. He's out this evening with some workmates for a few drinks at a company-organised event. He also has an event tomorrow afternoon involving children so needs to have his wits about him. Its the first time he's organised this particular childrens activity so all new to him. I mentioned earlier, just in chatting, that he'd need to keep a clear-ish head for tomorrow which he acknowledged and agreed with. A few hours later as I was dropping him off, I mentioned again (in a nice not narky way) that it probably wasn't a good idea to get totally shitfaced, and he got quite arsey with me, arguing that I'd out a downer on his evening before it had even begun. Now he's probably right, but given his inability to find his off switch on some of these occasions, was I was being U in trying to appeal to his sensible side? For background he's be out once a month with mates on average.