I'm a nanny! My charge is 20 months old and I bring my own son with me too!
The house where I work - both parents of the boy I care for work full time!
The fathers sister also lives her with her husband and they have an 11 month old and she found out she is pregnant last week - between 6-12 weeks! She is here all day everyday, well call her B
B and I get on very well and usually help each other out for example - my charge pooped over me one time and she let me home to change while she watched him, when she has appointments I will watch her child,
The problem - she asked me to come into her room this morning without my dc or my charge to have a talk, so I settled them in the play room and dashed in there quick
She's asked me to do her chores - dishwasher loading, cleaning pots and pans on her days (they go in rotation) washing her laundry and changing her baby because her back aches and she "has to take rest and it hurts too much" and she will pay me extra money! Ok, but she wants neither the 3rd family here to know, nor my charges parents!
She doesn't want me doing these things if any one is around!
What do I do! DP says it's extra money! But it feels so wrong towards the parents of my charge