I met a new guy a few weeks ago and he introduced me to his Son and Parents two weeks ago. He had told me about his crazy ex and explained that she had threatened to take his Son away if he met someone else or introduced her Son to anyone. She is from Ireland and he's always said he threatens to take their Son back if he annoys her. He admitted hat she left him.
Anyway his Son is three and after meeting me, he told his mum that he had met (insert my name). She questioned who this person was and my ex denied all knowledge. Then his Mum felt she had a right to know so told her.
She rang my boyfriend saying she felt it was absolutely disgusting that he had introduced their Son to someone he barely knew and without her knowledge but left it at that. No threats to take him away.
ive seen pics of her in his wallet and she's beautiful. She left him and came out as a lesbian shortly after so definitely doesn't want him back! She is more educated than him and his Mum said she only got with him to have a child but I don't know if it's true. Everyone used to say she was it of his league and I think he feels humiliated that she is now openly lesbian.
Anyway, I'm rambling but I was under the impression she was a crazy, bitter, ugly ex with jealousy issues.
She turned out to be beautiful, mature, empathetic and not remotely interested in him. So I feel misled and probably wouldn't have met his Son without her agreement had I known the reality.
But his ex is refusing to meet me now as she feels by meeting my boyfriends Son secretly, I am not a decent person and so she does not wish to see me.
I'm new to dating single dads (I have three children myself but I only recently left their dad) so don't know the etiquette. I certainly didn't me to offend.
Was I unreasonable to have met her child without her permission?