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To wonder why on earth someone would do the following

96 replies

NeedsAsockamnesty · 18/02/2017 17:08

Walk into a room pick up a baby that was not theirs and change its bum and clothes when they had been done within about 10 mins and genuinely did not need doing.

Every single time you came into contact with the same baby?

And no it's nothing to do with a mil

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SumThucker · 18/02/2017 18:29

So she's just told you she's pregnant?

ILostItInTheEarlyNineties · 18/02/2017 18:30

Aaah, strange mysterious behaviour solved! Congratulations Flowers

QODRestYeMerryGentlemen · 18/02/2017 18:33

Awwwwww 👶
🛀 🍷

piginboots · 18/02/2017 18:33

TheFirstMrsDV that is so sad.

ForeverLivingMyArse · 18/02/2017 18:34
Smile

Lovely!

Lweji · 18/02/2017 18:41

I'm hoping this means she's not intending on taking up kidnapping babies as a hobby or anything
Grin

Anyway, congratulations, future auntie. :)

novemberontrumpwatch · 18/02/2017 18:44

Awww, what a lovely ending to a thread!

DagenhamRoundhouse · 18/02/2017 18:46

Perhaps there's a mental heath issue here?

DagenhamRoundhouse · 18/02/2017 18:46

Mental HEALTH not heath!

DagenhamRoundhouse · 18/02/2017 18:47

Sorry, just read thread.. Pls ignore previous comments.

Cherrysoup · 18/02/2017 18:47

Was she trying to drop hints in a rather odd way? Is it reusable nappies? Otherwise I'd be a bit Angry at the cost!

NeedsAsockamnesty · 18/02/2017 18:48

Apparently she didn't tell me sooner because she didn't want me mithering her about resting and giving her horror stories about puking in bins.

Which is fair enough because I do that.

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UnbornMortificado · 18/02/2017 18:55

Socks I was just coming in to say I'm pregnant and always make a beeline for DNiece2.

I do ask first mind, I like a happy ending on here.

Is it your first nice/nephew?

MewlingQuim · 18/02/2017 18:55

Grin I immediately thought she must be pregnant.

I had no interest in other peoples babies until I got pregnant, then thought 'fuck I really need to learn NOW'. Luckily my friend had just had one and I borrowed him regularly on the pretext of 'helping' Smile

Neolara · 18/02/2017 18:59

Aww. Lovely.

EweAreHere · 18/02/2017 19:01

I'd be pissed off. Nappies aren't cheap! Wasteful and unnecessary for her to be doing this.

SuperFlyHigh · 18/02/2017 19:01

That's really sweet!

sotiredbutworthit · 18/02/2017 19:02

Awww! Yay!! A happy ending!!!

EweAreHere · 18/02/2017 19:03

But congratulations on your impending Auntiehood. Suppose I'd have to giver her a pass. :)

NeedsAsockamnesty · 18/02/2017 19:09

Not the first niece/nephew but I have the closest relationship with my sister out of all my siblings and I see he the most all the others are hours away so I only get to see them occasionally

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AgainstTheOddsNo2 · 18/02/2017 19:09

Haha. As soon as you said you had other babies and she wasn't like it before I thought "she's pregnant" yea! I am glad it's such a nice story

NeedsAsockamnesty · 18/02/2017 19:09

ewe ive got nappies that are on the go and have been for over 20 years

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Beeziekn33ze · 18/02/2017 19:21

ThefirstMrsDV. As pig said, so sad

HeartsTrumpDiamonds · 18/02/2017 19:30

Great news Sock

TheFirstMrsDV · 18/02/2017 19:56

Yes it was sad.
Cases like that always are.
People think that SS cases are always about wicked parents, gross neglect, cruelty or conversely that if some parents were just helped a bit more they could be good parents.

Unfortunately some parents are just not able (sometimes at that point or sometimes ever) to look after their children. She couldn't move on with her child. If you showed her how to change a baby she would be able to do it after two months of demonstrations but she wouldnt' be able to adapt the skill of changing a newborn to changing a mobile baby.
She could change a baby's clothes but she didn't know when or why.

The baby is a massive nearly 14 year old now Smile