For her christening our lg was given some cash and a premium bond. DH got the bond, I opened a saving account (linked to my bank account). Money been added to the savings from couple of eBay sales and her first birthday. DH now can't find the bond certificate. Lots of comments about how he's never lost paperwork before (I only moved in 16 months ago with my kids when prey with our lg), really pissed off, have I seen it etc. For last two weeks been asking where is savings passbook, what total is in it etc. Tonight more of the same, along with him wanting passbook as he wants to put some in tomorrow, will they show updated amounts when he puts it in (because I have electronically transferred,not used passbook), did I def put in the twenty quid from her birthday... Its starting to feel like he doesn't believe me. He's always asking about if I have money, do I need some, "just don't get into debt for gods sake". Think this is because I told him, when I moved in, that I had some debts, so would not get a joint account with him, to protect him. I did explain though that debt had scared me so have no overdraft facility, no credit card, no store cards etc so cannot get into debt again. Almost wish I hadn't been honest about prior stuff now and just kept quiet. Am I over reacting to resent the questioning over lg savings and insinuations that I'm responsible for missing bond? Perhaps I'm over thinking but its really bugging me...