To think if my parents never met...

[a1990]

They would be have led much happier lives. Honestly I think that their lives would have been so much better if they were still married to their 1st wives/husband. Obviously me and my siblings wouldn't be here if that was the case. Anyone else felt this way?

Narky - I love your comment

PovertyPain we may be related Nah, we can't be, or you wouldn't be speaking to me! 😉😄

I sometimes objectively think that my parents would've benefited from not having me.

They are very much in love and a unit and I think leaving pretty much a ten year gap between my brother and I just put their life on hold tbh. I don't think they needed a second child.