I have recently have some bad experiences with men during sex in terms of consent. One would keep on doing things I explicitly said I did not like (choking, biting etc), and another would hold me down and have sex with me without a condom, even if I begged him to put a condom on. This has completely thrown me off casual sex. But lately I have wanted to try again. Would I be unreasonable to have them sign a form saying something like:
"I agree to the following statements:
-(Various ways of saying No means No, such as "I don't like that means No", "I am not sure I want you do that means No")
-Penetrative sex will always be with a condom. No "teasing", pulling out or anything of the like.
-No choking or biting unless agreed upon
Signed: _"
WIBU?