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Someone bumped the car, WWYD?

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bingandflop · 11/02/2017 11:06

Hi

On Tuesday somebody left a note on the car in a car park as they had pranged it. The front left bumper has a considerable scrape and looks kind of cracked. They left their number so we phoned them and it was a teenage boy who did it but his father's number.

The father asked if we could avoid going through the insurance and said he has a friend who will be able to fix it. We thought ok.

DH text the guy 2 days later as we hadn't heard anything further and the guy was a bit hostile but said he would get the guy to come and look at it the next day (the next day being yesterday). He did not do so.DH and I feel he is making excuses and has no intention of getting this sorted (the prang being caused by his son not him).

WWYD? At this stage we would rather just go through the insurance but we don't have their insurance details and doubt they will give them to us. We do have their name, tel, address and the original note from the boy admitting culpability.

Is there anything we can do? Is there anything the insurers can do without the other party's insurance details?

Many thanks in advance for any suggestions

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Arkhamasylum · 11/02/2017 12:37

Just phone your insurance company.

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wideboy26 · 11/02/2017 12:44

Another Emma is right. Insurers will want to know about no-fault claims you've had in the past. Whether accidents are your fault or not, it creates a picture of how often a person is involved in accidents and gives them another excuse to rate what sort of a risk that person presents.

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Iamtheresurrection · 11/02/2017 13:46

I was involved in two non fault accidents last year, both with company vehicles whose owners wanted to pay rather than claim through insurance. My insurance company is still trying to get the money from both, solicitors are now involved and whilst waiting for resolution my renewal quote has increased substantially. (Apparently I'll be refunded when the monies are finally received.)

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JustAnotherPoster00 · 11/02/2017 13:53

I would log the prang with 101

Umm, what? Hmm

Contact your insurance as other pp's have suggested it removes any of the he said she said stuff and probably block their number.

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Allthebestnamesareused · 11/02/2017 14:01

A girl reversed off her drive into the side of my husband's car.

Damaged part of the bumper (crack) and side wing. However it was a painted bumper and the repairs and replacement bumper was going to be over £2k because they have to spray to match and also take 3 days because of painting during which time my husband needed a hire crae.

The mother wanted to not go through insurance initially and then queried all the costs as she was told by her daughter it was just a little bump. I offered for them to come to see the car and the quotes. It went through the insurance after that!

Also you have come back if the repairs aren't good enough and as it was as the result of another party hitting you you'd be entitled to a hire car whilst it was being repaired.
#Call them and say that as they have not come round you need their insurance details and address etc.

If they refuse to give them call your insurance company for them to deal with it. However while this is being dealt with if your insurance is up for renewal they will quote as if there is an outstanding claim

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Flipthebirdy · 11/02/2017 14:11

Do not call 101. The police are not there to deal with every minor car accident. Report it to your insurers and give them the driver's details, including reg number if you can get it. If you can snap some pics of their car safely as well that would be handy.
As Yellow said they may be trying to sort the damage to their car so they can deny everything so don't dely any further.

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barinatxe · 11/02/2017 14:23

Contact the police on 101 to report the incident, and contact your insurance company. The driver's insurance premium will increase but it should do because he caused a collision that damaged someone's car! Keeping the insurance company out of the loop is fraud, albeit by omission rather than by deliberate act.

You might say who cares, why should the insurance company be told if the claim does not go through them? Well, insurance policies usually require the holder to declare any incidents which could have resulted in a claim being made on the policy even if a claim isn't made. Failure to abide by one condition can mean the WHOLE policy is invalidated.

You owe it to the next victim of this driver's inexperience or carelessness. If they find out about this incident, the insurance company might invalidate the whole policy and the victim will be in the situation of having a claim against an uninsured driver.

To be honest the whole thing sounds dodgy. I would not be surprised if the reason that they don't want to involved the insurance company is because they don't even have one. Even if they do, getting their mate to do the work to save them a few quid is full of risks. Will they do a good job, how long will it take for them to get it done? But you're the innocent party in this. Why should you take these risks, which at best will leave you in the same position as if you reported it?

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barinatxe · 11/02/2017 14:31

To clarify, this incident should be reported to the police as a non-emergency.

Incidents must be reported to the police in occasions where affected parties do not exchange details at the scene of the incident.

The offending driver left his details - you did not give him yours at the scene. While you are innocent here, who knows what lies these people might come up with if they find out the repairs will be more expensive than they thought?

It's a question of common-sense. Why would you choose to put yourself at risk of a police investigation, a fine, penalty points or prison for failure to report an accident? Why would you deliberately risk it when you can dial 101 and eliminate the risk?

I agree that there is a 99% chance that it won't come to these drastic eventualities, but I would personally prefer a 100% chance to a 99% one!

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Flipthebirdy · 11/02/2017 14:56

The offending driver left his details - you did not give him yours at the scene. While you are innocent here, who knows what lies these people might come up with if they find out the repairs will be more expensive than they thought?

She did not have the opportunity to give him her details at the scene. They now have her details. How does reporting it to the police stop them coming up with lies exactly?

Why would you choose to put yourself at risk of a police investigation, a fine, penalty points or prison for failure to report an accident?

Police investigation, a fine, penalty points. For what?? It is not illegal to not report a car accident to the police.

If nothing illegal has taken place why should the police be involved?? For goodness sake leave them to deal with crime!

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NameChange30 · 11/02/2017 15:11

kit30
"Off base"? Hmm
Unless you work in car insurance maybe check your facts before telling someone they're wrong.
See www.thisismoney.co.uk/money/cars/article-3052191/How-drivers-insurance-costs-soar-no-fault-accidents-don-t-claim.html

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NameChange30 · 11/02/2017 15:13

Accidents only have to be reported to the police if someone is injured or if the parties don't exchange details (as PPs have said). Since the OP has the other party's name, address and phone number, I guess that's enough for their car registration details to be traced by insurance companies and (if necessary) police. Presumably the other party took down the OP's registration number and now has her details since she has contacted him. So I see no need to involve the police.

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PUGaLUGS · 11/02/2017 16:03

JustAnother no need to be so Hmm

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CostaAddict · 11/02/2017 16:59

Very doubtful they will pay up OP so I'd go straight to insurance company.

When an elderly man reversed into my car & drove off, a witness luckily put a note on my windscreen with the reg no and her contact number. I reported to my insurance and they advised I still needed a police incident number so reported to 101. Without that they wouldn't process the claim. Not exactly the same situation but your insurance may still ask for a police incident number.

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