Dsis is a nightmare for repaying money so I don't lend her anything. Plenty of form for saying you pay and I'll give it you back later. This month though I have paid for a few things on my card which were unavoidable so she has ended up owing me some money. Not a major amount but too much to forget about. I did say she could give it me on payday (over a week ago now).
The thing is I have asked her for it every day since she got paid. She always says oh yes I'll do a bank transfer but then nothing happens. She hasn't put the money in still and I now have to ask again. I feel like I'm pestering now and I can see it causing an argument.
She isn't flush with money - neither am I but she has just been paid and has plenty of money to go out. Am getting really fed up of it now and feel like I am harassing her. Aibu to think she should have just given it me back when she said.