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AIBU regarding theatre experience?

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WildBelle · 04/02/2017 19:19

I took my DDs to the theatre last night as a treat. I was up to my neck in uni work all xmas holidays so we didn't really go out and do much, so I got us tickets to see a show that I knew they'd both love. I hope I don't offend anyone with this post, I have a dd with a disability so that's the last thing I want to do.

Throughout the first half there was someone in the audience who kept singing happy birthday VERY loudly. This ramped up significantly in the second half, it was pretty much constant and very distracting, and then was accompanied by someone else who was making very loud noises (and sounded quite distressed). i am assuming that they were older children or adults with learning difficulties. Now don't get me wrong, I am completely behind the idea of people with disabilities having access to theatre or anything else, but in the second half particularly the noises coming from that direction were so loud that it was impossible to hear what was going on on stage.

If someone had a baby that was crying, they would have taken them out to avoid disturbing everyone else. I can't help thinking that the carers should have done something about it, particularly when it escalated in the second half. I personally feel disppointed that the show was ruined a bit by not being able to hear, as a single parent it's not something I can afford to do that often. There was probably getting on for 1000 people in the theatre and they would have all been affected by the noise levels.

I probably sound horrible and I really don't mean to, but AIBU?

IonaMumsnet · 04/02/2017 21:08

Evening all. Just popping by to say thank you for the largely reasonable and thoughtful posts on this thread.

Just because we know threads on these scenarios can sometimes get a bit fraught and upsetting, particularly for parents of children with special needs, we wanted to drop in to remind everyone that we always like to remember that those parents and children face particular challenges daily and, ultimately, inclusivity benefits us all.

We also know that there are many parents of children with SN on Mumsnet and in fact on this thread , so we think it's always worth reminding folk to consider that when posting on threads on this kind of topic.

Sorry to barge in on the thread anyway, OP. Have a good evening, all.

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