I posted before but had this deleted due to uniqueness.
DH child with his ex is IVF baby. They had 2 embryos left over which DH signed over for her to use and hid from me "out of fear of losing me". I told him his choice but I couldn't stay and he said he wanted her to use them.
During that time in 2015 his ex got pg naturally and lost the baby. She told DH she wasn't using their embryos, she was going to stop trying to get pregnant at all. I became pregnant shortly after that.
6 months later she and her own DH were going to Spain and went several more times in the year and turns out for IVF and she is pg.
I asked DH if they were with his and he states he told the clinic he didn't want them using his so they stopped that. This story doesn't match the previous he told me (ie that he can't get involved by clinic and doesn't want to stop it anyway).
I really can't handle the thought that his ex is potentially having his children. Am I being paranoid?