My dc are still quite young, age 3 and age 6. They get so much chocolate and sweets at Christmas, think 5 selection boxes each, 2 giant tubs of haribo each, giant chocolate santa etc from well meaning family and friends. Easter about 10 giant eggs each. Endless parties with sweets in goodie bags throughout the year. Not to mention Halloween where the few houses of elderly neighbours we go to literally pour sweets into their buckets! My dc are constantly asking me for sweets and chocolate. I said they could each pick one each night after dinner out of a "treat box" but this has turned into disaster as dc are now hardly eating any dinner as they want sweets. If I say no dinner no sweets then they are trying to force their dinner down even if they are full and gagging 😞 I'm thinking of saying a sweet each after school? But it still feels too many sweets having a small pack everyday after school plus the grandparents give them sweets at the weekend too. What is the solution?