OH constantly wanting to touch my boobs.

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OH and I have been together for nearly eight years, he's always been a boobs guy. Ive put quite a bit of weight on over the last three years and I've gone from a 42DD to a 48GG, he absolutely loves them and wants to touch them all the time. I don't mind when we're in bed, in the bathroom etc, but its all the time, when we are watching TV, when we are in the kitchen etc.

Every time he touches your boobs and you don't want him to, grab his nuts. And squeeze. Hard. He'll soon stop.

My ex husband was like that. One of the reasons he is an ex husband.

What would your reaction be if it was a stranger or your colleague or someone else who did this?
It would be (and is) sexual assault
It makes no difference that it's your OH
My ex did this

One massive reason why he is an ex

Have you told him it's unwelcome? in case he's as perceptive as a door step

Do you tell him to stop?
What is his reaction?

Ewwwww

He sounds completely revolting.

Scream GET THE FUCK OFF ME!!!! in his face. Seriously.

Have you told him to stop? If you have, and he keeps doing it then I would be very annoyed with him. Totally not acceptable.

They're a part of your body, not a squeezy toy. He doesn't own them, he doesn't get to play with them at will, like a businessman with one of those stress balls on their desk.

Tell him to stop treating you like an object and recognise that unwanted groping is assault.

Have you told him you don't like it OP? Your post doesn't say you have.

My DP is welcome to touch my boobs whenever we are in private (Although he doesn't do it all the time). Being in a relationship absolutely does not give him the right to touch you when it's unwanted, but he may think you like it unless you've told him you don't.

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Have you spoken to him about this?

Have you actually told him you hate it? You really need to do that, if you haven't. He might think you're into it.

If he's only really started doing this since your boobs got bigger, it sounds like he's fetishising them a bit. Plenty of men are 'boob men' but there's a difference between liking boobs and constantly obsessing over them and treating them as if they're an object on their own rather than part of your body.

They aren't toys, dear.
Get off it's irritating.
Do that again and I'll pinch your hand.

Don't stand within arms reach.