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To want my tonsils removed?

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Ibloodyhatethomasthetankengine · 11/01/2017 18:41

Long story short, years of tonsil trouble now has come to a point where they're starting to affect my day-to-day life. Adult tonsil removal seems to be a pretty grim experience by all accounts (no seems to quite understand why when children don't seem to have as difficult a time of it with tonsillectomy) but I am now at a point where I am seriously considering the short-term agony for the long-term gain.

Has anyone else had this done as an adult and if so, would I be foolish to do it? I would likely have to go private as I don't think my local GP would be very supportive, but I am now at the end of my tether (sitting here with bleeding tonsils right now) and need to know there is light at the end of the tunnel!

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1wokeuplikethis · 11/01/2017 20:52

I'm 31 and had mine out four months ago.

I got referred easily by my dr (based on getting tonsillitis 3-4 times a year) and the consultant just ticked boxes and I got a date for 8 weeks later. Easy peasy.

I've never had an operation and was very scared and nervous. It was horrible going under. I bled a lot so had to stay overnight. And was nil by mouth for 36hrs so had a drip. It wasn't that bad, I was off my face on painkillers. My mouth felt battered and sore as if I'd been punched in the gob but eating at first wasn't bad.

I was on maternity leave with a 9 month old and also a 3 year old so my mum came and stayed for a few days to help and my husband WFH for 2 weeks. The care from others for at least 2 weeks is vital.

For me, swallowing and drinking was no worse than having tonsillitis. And I took paracetamol and codeine for about a week. A cold/hot compress and wearing a scarf helped loads, as did using a humidifier in the bedroom and just resting lots. Days 4-8 were the worst because of the ear and jaw pain. I've never even had a filling and have a low pain threshold. I couldn't eat because of the pain in my ears rather than my throat. I didn't wake up in the night in pain because of the humidifier.

I lost my sense of taste for about 3 months but took zinc tablets every day as that apparently helps.

I'm glad I had it done. The fear of getting tonsillitis and being debilitated always worried me and I always got it at important times eg holidays, my wedding, Christmas.

No lookin back for me. So relieved to know I'll never have tonsilitis again. No more tonsil stones. And I don't snore any more which my husband is thrilled about Blush

There's always horror stories and good stories. I would rather give birth than have a tonsillectomy again (& my babies topped 10lbs each) but it is definitely short term pain for long term gain; my advice would be get it done, push through the discomfort and then you can relish knowing you'll never suffer with tonsillitis again.

AnneOfCleavage · 11/01/2017 21:17

Knowing you'll never have tonsillitis again makes it so worth it and the pain is equal to having tonsillitis so you are kind of expecting it, if that makes sense. I had mine out at 24 after only having it a few times but my tonsils were enormous so they thought it prudent to remove them. I had a temp spike whilst recovering in hospital so was in 5 days and stayed at my parents for a week after (as lived alone) then after the 2nd week was fine. I ate toast as that was recommended but also ice cream / lollies as it numbed the throat a bit. I slept loads though so maybe my pain killers were drowsy type ones but sleeping definitely helped. I do remember the pain but don't remember it any worse than tonsillitis abut then it was over 15 years ago.

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