Diemme Mon 09-Jan-17 22:21:01
"So much on the news at the moment about unacceptable waiting times in a&e departments. And it always makes me think about the few times I've been to a&e in the past few years, and noticed that the waiting room resembled a social club! Full of people eating, drinking, chatting and walking to and from the toilet, vending machine etc."
To be fair, there are circumstances under which somebody could be like that and still be in A & E. I was sent to A & E by the walk-in centre the other week: sudden bleeding from where I shouldn't have been bleeding, needed seeing immediately. But I felt perfectly well in myself; it was just that the condition was potentially urgent and serious.
Otoh there have been several other times when I have felt completely shit, not been able to walk without support, no doubt looked like death, but actually only needed a quick check-over by my GP and some antibiotics.
Also, on the occasions when either I or a family member do have serious worries, I tend to go into expansive, pleasant, competent, smiley mode. It's a kind of defence mechanism. I smiled pleasantly throughout my biopsy- and will no doubt go on smiling pleasantly if I am diagnosed with cancer. I'll probably keep on going to go the loo, too (what is the alternative if you get to wait 5 hours in A & E?- they're hardly going to bring a chamber pot to your seat).