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The Neighbours Cat.

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MountainPeaks · 30/12/2016 10:24

Looking for some humane suggestions to keep the neighbours cat out of our property. I have a allergy to cats so I can't pick it up and take it back to them (DP has done this a couple of times).

We brought a "doer upper" and we've been living in it, in various states of disarray for the last few months. We can't have any of the windows open without us physically being in the room because without fail that neighbours cat comes in and pees, or poops, in our house. We had just redone a bedroom floor sanded, walls replastered, electrics all fixed up and as we had repainted we had the windows open. Went for lunch and the cat came in a peed on the sanded floors. Just one example to highlight the frustration.

We have a trampoline in the garden which was originally uncovered. Cat pooped on it regularly. We've now brought a cover - cat still poops on it regularly.

Most nights it starts fighting and it goes on for several hours - like 2 or 3. It sits on the wall at the end of our back garden. Sounds like someone is being murdered.

It's regularly decimating our bird feeders, it leaves dead things, semi-dead things, partially injured things all around our back patio.

The neighbours don't have a cat flap because "if the cat comes in it just pees on the floor". They feed the cat outside. The cat stays out the entire time. We've tried to talk to them and their attitude is along the lines of "well the cat was hear before you were and your house has been empty for years".

What's the best way to deal with it (the cat and the owners)? I don't want anything that will harm the cat - even though I don't like them. DP has taken the cat around to owners when we've caught it in the house. We've suggested a cat flap to them and litter tray. We've asked that they put a bell collar on it to give warning to the birds. We don't want to fall out with the neighbours but we are fed up with it. Also TTC and I don't want to be cleaning up anymore pet poop than I need to (ie. my dog).

OP posts:
MountainPeaks · 01/01/2017 11:30

"Clean the areas using a specialised urine cleaner" We have - cat urine is actually really bad for allergies so we were advised by the hospital allergy team to do this.

Thanks for the black light suggestion.

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BionicMercenary · 02/01/2017 00:26

I would honestly just take it to the vets and say its been sleeping in your shed every night since you moved in and you dont want it, say you have put posters up and noone has come forward, vets will rehome and neuter, as long as its not chipped, which sounds unlikley as they dont let the poor thing in the it shouldn't be a problem for you again.

awesomeness · 02/01/2017 14:09

I have cats and had trouble with a neighbours cat coming in and making mine go crazy. I stole my sons super soaker and squirted it a few times, then all I had to do shake anything with water in, and now he doesn't bother

namechanger456 · 02/01/2017 14:14

We have a neighbourhood female cat that breaks in and sprays, attacks cats and shits wherever it wants. Nobody locally owns up to owning it. We have sprayed it, one neighbour has apparently hit it (it was attacking their kitten) and we can't do anything. I have two cats and my neighbour has spikes on our adjoining fence as she thinks it is mine causing trouble (pissing everywhere) but mine were kept in at the time. This cat needs to be taken away but we all like cats too much to do it.

MsMims · 02/01/2017 14:27

name if it's that aggressive it's probably an unneutered male. Either a stray or abandoned pet. You'd all be doing the cat a favour to hand it in to a rescue - with all those hormones and feeling the need to defend its territory it's a really stressful life for the cat itself.

Also, if it fights so much it will have injuries that aren't getting medical treatment. Taking it in to a rescue really would be the kindest thing.

dorisdog · 02/01/2017 14:49

Cats shouldn't be left outside all the time. It's obviously desperate for somewhere to go. Call the RSPCA. If they don't want the cat, they should find a different home for it! has it been neutered? If it's a 'he' and it's fighting all night it'll get injured, too. It's not a great life for a cat - they're not as hardy as people think after centuries of domestication! (I realise this can be a bit different in the countryside where cats are sometimes 'outdoor' mousers, but they have a wider territory and barns to sleep in, etc.)

onalongsabbatical · 02/01/2017 14:53

TBH I think you have a problem with the neighbours. Their attitude is not good! If I had a pet that was causing my new neighbours so much stress I’d be a)mortified and b)bending over backwards to try and do something. They seem to be just shrugging their shoulders – the cat was here before you, they say? So does that mean you should just put up and shut up? They seem hostile to me.

TesticleMeElmo · 02/01/2017 14:59

I haven't read the whole thread I'm afraid (small child demanding attention) but has anyone suggested the old fashioned mothballs? We used to have them in our garden to keep the cats away as they hate the smell of those as well, and they're dead cheap on eBay. Failing that, you're more than welcome to swap dogs for a few weeks - our psychotic patterdale will see the cat off for you with no issues, and will make sure he doesn't dare come back Grin

Fuxfurforall · 02/01/2017 15:09

Some kind of water pistol. Cats soon learn to stay away and it doesn't physically harm them. Also try putting a length of wire a few cm above the top of your garden fences - it will make jumping the fence more difficult for them.
I own cats but appreciate my neighbours do not want them using their gardens as a toilet - both of the above have worked a treat without harming the cats or costing a fortune.

kalinkafoxtrot45 · 02/01/2017 15:09

I wouldn't use mothballs. They are toxic to cats.

TreadSoftlyOnMyDreams · 02/01/2017 15:13

I would cat proof the top of the fencing. Yes it's more cost but it permanently solves the problem of the garden and house invasion. Super soaker for the night time wailing. Or a spud gun..... 😜

Sillybillybonker · 02/01/2017 15:33

I don't think you can get good old fashioned mothballs anymore. Something to do with camphor being toxic.

JanuaryMoods · 02/01/2017 15:48

Try anti climb paint on the fence, OP. It worked for my friend.

JacquesHammer · 02/01/2017 17:19

onalongsabbatical

Not the OP but with a similar issue. My neighbours are aghast I don't want their pet coming into my house "oh but the previous owners didn't mind".

They seem to be totally remorseless their pet is damaging my property.

Although we're at an impasse now as they suggested i might like to lop a tree that's blocking light Wink

WhooooAmI24601 · 02/01/2017 17:35

We have 4 cats (all neutered and litter-box-trained) and our neighbours are fabulous but one of our females took to sneaking into the neighbours house and curling up on their beds. The chap is hugely allergic to cats (I've seen it happen in real time; his face and hands were swollen after he found the girl cat on their bed one evening) so we bought them a super soaker and told them to shoot the buggers every time they went near the house.

It worked brilliantly and the cats never bother them any more. I love the cats but would be mortified if mine caused so many problems for neighbours.

smilingsarahb · 02/01/2017 17:45

If its marking and leaving a stink get a cat odour removing spray and really clean it up as it smells it's own marking and goes again. My dad had success with one of those cat scares that makes a high pitched noise that only cats here. My neighbour marked his own territory by peeing in a bottle and p reading it round where the cat went and it actually worked. Collect up any poo and return it with the cat.

thecatsabsentcojones · 02/01/2017 18:15

You've got tons of advice which I'm not going to add to. But just wanted to say you've got every right to be annoyed by this, it sounds like a nightmare. You also sound pretty principled in the fact you haven't just taken it somewhere and dumped it.

If you live in Kent I'll bring my semi feral one year old Labrador round. She'd have no delay in chasing this cat out of the garden. Your dog sounds a lot more calm!

stressedinsurrey · 02/01/2017 19:54

Report it to the council as a nuisance issue

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 02/01/2017 23:23

Good luck with that!

bluebellsparklypants · 03/01/2017 22:38

Sounds a right pain I love cats but this is step too far!
Not sure what there called but the things that give off a high pitch frequency, ultrasonic things you'd place them around your garden. Or even use a spray bottle (like hairspray) just something that would scare it if seen in your house. good luck with it

AtomHeart · 10/01/2017 21:22

How did this pan out? Were the CPL of any use?

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