I should preface this with I had a horrible eating disorder for much of my teens/early twenties and can still struggle so may have a skewed idea around food.
I was invited to a friends house for dinner tonight, oh great thank you I said, but did point out j was a vegetarian, I'm not a fussy one, as long as it's not meat or fish I'll eat it. But I did offer to either bring a vegetarian dish for everyone to share or bring my own food just in case. She said no and she'd make me something.
Texted again this morning just to reiterate that I was happy to bring something if she was struggling to make two meals, didn't want to be awkward, again she said not to worry.
Got there and it was a tapas thing which was great... But there were literally no veggie options bar some patatas bravas which were very nice,... So loads of people had heaps before I managed to get to them so I literally had half a tablespoon on patatas Bravas and some olives.
One guest made a comment about "oh is that all you're having queen?!" And host said "oh look at the size of her she won't need much!" (See previous eating disorder comment - I'm still quite slim).
AIBU to be a bit upset about this all?
Hope that was coherent I've had a fair few beers on very little food!