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To feel a bit down in the dumps for no reason

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ShowMePotatoSalad · 29/12/2016 21:10

I'm off this week with DH and DS. I just feel a bit low and tearful. I don't think I'm depressed - it's only come on this week. I think it might be the fact that there's such a big build up to Christmas and then it's just a bit of an anticlimax.

Also my DH is my DS's (1 y/o) favourite at the moment. He always wants daddy to hold him...doesn't want me. I know it's just a phase he's going through (I was his favourite last week, lol) but it's just getting me down a bit.

I'm sat in the kitchen on my own. I've got so much to feel thankful and grateful for, but I just can't shake off this weird feeling of sadness. Can someone help me get a grip?

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ShowMePotatoSalad · 30/12/2016 08:46

Yeah, it looks like it was a load of total crap. Funny how rumours spread like that. Glad it's nothing

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Babyroobs · 30/12/2016 10:11

Feeling the same here, you are not alone. I never really relish Christmas, we have no extended family to visit and with 4 kids myself all the hard work and preparation falling to just me and dh. I feel exhausted from all the extra work Christmas brings and have then spent almost every day since Christmas day at work.

HandsomeDevil · 30/12/2016 10:15

The dark days really start to get to me after a while - my energy levels are always low at this time of year. Christmas was absolutely fine, but we've been running around like headless chickens. I have a fairly stressful job, and really need my annual leave for a break, but at Christmas it seems impossible. Roll on February half-term: lighter days, less to do!

In the meantime I'm planning to spend the next three mornings out walking, and the next three afternoons in bed.

lilyb84 · 30/12/2016 21:04

How did your day go ShowMePotatoSalad? Hope you're feeling a bit more upbeat!

40somethingwonderful · 30/12/2016 21:11

Glad it's not just me. Feels a relieve to find this thread.

I've been down, snappy, slightly anxious and feeling a little hopeless. I've had depression before and I know when I'm depressed, this feels like a more watered down version.

My plan is to go for a long walk tomorrow.

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