More is DP being unreasonable about not getting one persons kids presents (I think he is a bit)
We have a late Xmas meal with his family and have got presents for the children and his parents (they don't tend to get presents for each other-just the children). There are 4 of them all together. My DP his younger brother and then his older half sister and older half brother.
His older half brother is much older about 10+ years and moved out of the family home when my DP was only little about under 5. That brother then went on to have a child (lets say Anne) who is now grown up and has 2 children of her own and the older half brother has also had a second child (let's say Clare) with another partner.
As I said we've got presents for the parents and his sister's child and the second child claire as we see them maybe once or twice a year but nothing for Anne's children.
I think we should just pick something up for Anne's two children as it seems rude not to.
However my DP doesn't think he should as he never really talks to or sees them.
I've never met Anne in the 5 years me and my partner have been together and my partner hasn't seen her in that time either (no bad blood he's not particularly a family orientated person and we've moved away). He's Only met Anne's oldest maybe once or twice (think she's about 7 or so) and never met the 2nd child which is maybe 2 - they don't ever speak to him either so he said why should he get them presents when he's not seen them and they haven't spoken to him in years.
Do you think he's being unreasonable?