Back from the parents for Christmas. Just myself and my parents (I know!!), I only went because I didn't want to leave them on their own, even thought I'd much rather have spent it alone or with friends.
My parents spent the weekend getting at each other, really nasty. Of course both think they are right and the other is completely unreasonable.
My DM spoke to me a couple of times in no uncertain terms about being sick of DF, often speaks of a life without him. This has been going on my whole life. When we were teenagers I hoped she would just leave him, but he has changed and I love them both.
But I really wish she would just grow a pair and do what she wants without dragging me into it. She seems to be waiting for me to do it for her, or tell her it's ok?? I'm not in this relationship, I'm not responsible but I think she feels that we are to blame because she has stayed with him for us - the children - like some kind of matyr (she loves to be a martyr)... ohh WIBU to pretend I'm working next year, stay in my PJs, turn off the phone and not see anyone??