Or am I being paranoid? Kind of embarrassingly laughable

[Evennumberonthevolume]

Met a guy through old. Had a great first date and we've arranged a second one for after Christmas.

He's put a snapchat up tonight of a dashboard in a car with pink Yankee air fresheners.

I've been cheated on before so I get weary and obviously this man isn't my boyfriend so he can't cheat.

I just don't want to fall for someone who's potentially already seeing someone else.

(Btw I haven't text him to ask who's car it is because I know I'd look like a psycho )

You have only had one date....

I wouldn't date anyone who used Snapchat full stop!

It's basically an app for cheating/sexting/dirty pics etc.

How old is he?! 19?!

If you are this paranoid this early into meeting someone, this isn't going to end well unless you get some help.

I think it's just an obvious sign that he's out with a woman*

Why on earth would you think this? I genuinely have no idea....

Good luck x

At this point, even if he is dating multiple women, you really shouldn't care.

^^ this.

You are not 'exclusive'. You are not in a 'relationship'. You just need to assume that any guy you're seeing is also seeing other women until they tell you that they want to be 'exclusive'.

In that case I wouldn't worry - but you obviously like him and that's why it's bothering you ... don't mention it when you see him, it could be a good friend of his ... just enjoy your Christmas and don't let it get to you, probably a simple explanation and you'll have a happy new year with him