DD's school has requested that each child spends £20 on a present to give for less fortunate children this Christmas. I couldn't even afford a birthday present for DD this year,she wont be getting a Christmas present until January let alone one for another child. I wouldn't mind so much if the school asked for everyone to put in something like £1
On top of that DD's circle of 'friends' are putting together £10 each towards a present for another girl. DD didn't receive anything from any of them and they are constantly telling her she's weird and needs to try and fit in . They're doing secret santa and left dd out but are still expecting her to get them each a present.
Aibu to 'ruin her chances of fitting in' and not let her contribute .