Dh frequently works late. He prefers working at the office as it's easier he says and he can get more done. We've got three kids aged 8-4 and the younger two have autism. Youngest is especially hard to settle to sleep and frequently wakes up. I'm a sahm due to the kids disabilities.
Today I'm mainly hacked off as I've been up since half four. I took the youngest to bed and came down about half seven and my dh was home. Great I thought. But no he announced he was off out to do his hobby but he'd get the kids into bed. But no he dumps them upstairs, tells them if they come down they'll get a smack (apparently we need to take a harder line with them que eye roll from me) and saunters out the door. Middle one has already been down twice and really desperately needs to sleep. I'm not surprised at his selfishness (he goes out about half seven - for work manages to sort himself, messes about on his phone etc so I'm left doing). But AIBU to be annoyed? He literally told me tonight he'd be out. I don't have an issue with him going out but I'd prefer not to have the kids just shoved into bed and left.