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To be annoyed by the amount of (lighthearted)s on here??

15 replies

EasternDailyStress · 11/12/2016 14:01

In the olden days, you could post a thread that was lighthearted and everyone would get it. Why now do some posters feel the need to explain their threads? Has the MN demographic changed so much over the past 15 years?

[grumpy old moo emoticon]

OP posts:
OohhThatsMe · 11/12/2016 14:02

I agree - it should be obvious that it's lighthearted - I don't need to be told it is.

SnatchedPencil · 11/12/2016 14:03

If it's not obvious that it's light-hearted, then perhaps you haven't phrased things very well.

LumelaMme · 11/12/2016 14:06

I made a comment once about how DD had the physique one would expect of Gimli's wife, not overweight but short and stocky and packed with muscle and someone jumped right down my throat: ''How can you say that sort of thing about your own DD! Horrible parent, your poor DD' sort of stuff.

So, yeah, I'm now inclined to put after some of my comments. Coz, yunno, I AM really horrible parent, but I just don't want people to realise the terrible truth....

Lelliot · 11/12/2016 14:06

I've seen many a thread that are very obviously lighthearted but the op gets jumped on by people who have a sense of humour failure or genuinely think it's serious.

WorraLiberty · 11/12/2016 14:06

YANBU

I'd rather deal with the miserable fuckers on the thread, than ever feel the need to type 'lighthearted' in the thread title.

It doesn't stop those who are determined to take it seriously anyway.

Goandplay · 11/12/2016 14:07

I think over the last 11 years I have been on here it feels like some posters take threads literally.

Goandplay · 11/12/2016 14:07

I think you're right though WorraLiberty, some will take it serious anyway.

EasternDailyStress · 11/12/2016 14:09

I'm so glad I'm not alone in this. It kind of goes along with my view of society as a whole these days; that everyone feels they're entitled and no one should offend their delicate sensitivities. And clearly have no sense of humour. Bollocks to that, I say.

OP posts:
FeckTheMagicDragon · 11/12/2016 14:09

Maybe we need a 'Lighthearted' topic?

Although all the AIBU cows would invade and be really mean to ...

smEGGnogg · 11/12/2016 14:11

Theres always someone who feels the need to be offended these days.

thecatsarecrazy · 11/12/2016 15:28

I got complained about once because i didn't put "not lighthearted" can't win

WomanFromAnotherPlace · 12/12/2016 05:34

From most of the 'lighthearted' posts I've seen, the OP makes a point that they don't like feeling like they have to add 'lighthearted'. However, some posts are so obviously 'lh' that I don't see why you'd need to state that in the title.
As pp said, you can put LH all you like, someone always turns up to piss on the parade

BathshebaSnowflakeStone · 12/12/2016 05:42

It's become necessary because some people don't seem to have a sense of humour. Xmas Hmm

BusterGonad · 12/12/2016 06:08

Because there are a shit load of MNers who are delicate snowflakes and have had a sense of humor bypass who make it their duty to be offended on a daily basis!

TheClaws · 12/12/2016 06:41

Agree. This is the type of thing I was meaning in my thread yesterday: more threads have to have 'lighthearted' to avoid the testy posters with humour bypasses. Often it doesn't help though.

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