I understand why, but it's really pissing me off. The need to be nosy is clearly grate. Basically, there's a huge group of youths around our area, about 60 of them. They attended a house party and it's gotten out of hand. We live in a nice area so it's unusual for drama, but it's setting my anxiety off. Dh has been stood at the balcony watching, even going outside when the drama has gone out of view.
I hate fights and drama, and I want to go to bed. It's a Juliet balcony so he csnt actually shut the door. I have a 12 hour shift tomorrow, have to be up at 6am, and I just want to go to bed, shut the window and feel safe. It's been well over an hour now, I'm shaking like a leaf (it's also cold, and I like the room cold, but not French door wide open in December cold). I probably sound incredibly neurotic but every insistence I've made about just coming inside and not getting involved is falling on deaf ears. And I mean, he's literally not even replying to me.
Aibu or should I just let him enjoy the drama?