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Neighbour ratty or reasonable?

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Inadither · 10/12/2016 16:33

Just been around to the next door neighbour as a courtesy to let her know we're having the flat roof on our garage replaced next year. The roof is attached to her property but the building isn't iyswim. We're effectively link detached. It's an enclosed carport and a garage door has been on it for as long as we have lived her (just over 5 years). There was a lot of work done in the past but TBH the roof could have done with replacing when we moved in. She looked concerned so I reassured her it would happen after the new year and that I didn't think it would take long to do but that there would be a bit of noise while it was completed. She still looked a bit huffy and said her house was sold to her as 'detached'. I said that the roof has always been attached. Explained I was a bit of a housing nerd and had looked at similar houses on the estate and their carports all attached one house to the other. Stated that we hadn't made any changes to the roof and I didn't think the builder who had done major extension work to the house a few years before us had either as the roof was knackered and donkeys years old. She said she didn't consent to anything being attached to her house. Reassured her that we weren't changing anything (the roof is already attached). Her response was 'we'll see' intimating that she was going to look into it further. AIBU in thinking we should just press on?

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TaintForTheLikesOfWe · 10/12/2016 22:33

Take loads of 'before' photos OP. Loads of them.

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Inadither · 20/12/2016 00:17

Thanks all. We've decide to press on as when I spoke to her it was to tell her the work was due to start. I'll take loads of photos and perhaps prime the roofer when he turns up but don't want to scare him off! I'm beginning to wonder what mrparty wall had to say though!

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WiddlinDiddlin · 20/12/2016 06:04

We need a diagram. This thread will be three million times better with a diagram, particularly if it features a grumpy neighbour, some sort of uniformed official and your good self.

Standards must be upheld!

OhWotIsItThisTime · 20/12/2016 06:10

Yes please to a diagram! Preferably drawn with different colours.

lunchboxtroubles · 20/12/2016 06:24

She bought a detached house,

presumably she went to see the house before she bought it?

honeylulu · 20/12/2016 06:35

I think it's fine. If your works included severing the link attachment, this might be detrimental to her car port roof as it would lack support. Surely she can't want that! All you are doing is maintaining/repairing what's already there.

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