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Staying at my Nan's with a baby?

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Goodonyou · 09/12/2016 16:34

Hi, quick background. Went to live with my Nan and Uncle after leaving my ex partner - my old house was in his name. Met current fiancé and things have never been better - he truly gives meaning to the saying 'when one door closes, another one opens'.

We don't live together - saving for a mortgage so having to stay with family for now. Am now pregnant - again, saving for mortgages so don't want to rent.

We both agree it's best if we leave apart for another's 18 months. After that, will have the cash to put a decent deposit down for a house.

AIBU to ask Nan if baby and me can stay at her property until we're sorted? My uncle works during the day but is there in the evenings - he's my only real worry as I don't want him losing sleep. He's 48.

My Nan is away Monday to Friday helping with childcare.

What do you think?

Really don't want to rent Sad

OP posts:
KlingybunFistelvase · 09/12/2016 20:46

Sorry, that's a little rude OP; why should the amount of rent you pay to your nan be obvious to me? You specifically said in your op that you don't want to rent and then you say later "of course I'll pay rent" ConfusedConfusedConfusedConfused.

Anyway, I wish you all the best of luck.

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