So we have 3DC. I work very flexibly part time so I suppose I almost take on a Sah role as I only work maybe 8 hours per week.
Dh works 40 hours per week. So I end up doingoing the many club runs which take place weekly with 3 children. Fair play. It's only maybe 20 minutes out of the evening.
Now this time of the year particularly there are extra events such as nativity plays Carol services etc. Now obviously I wfh so can easily do those that occur during the day. I don't think dh even really knows when they are.
Now the point of the Op is that over the years there have been plenty of events evenings and weekends that he could have attended but rarely does. Things like cubs and scout parades and Carol services etc etc. I always go along and feel bad as I am there on my own but it feels like everyone else has the whole family there.
Aibu to wish he would make a bit more effort for these events.
On the plus side he will take eldest to his football matches on a Saturday if it doesn't clash with his matches of course.
Ainu to hope for more interest.