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AIBU?

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To think that Christmas lights are "tacky and common" but not these ones?

66 replies

LunaLoveg00d · 09/12/2016 12:48

www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2016/12/09/professional-elves-told-christmas-lights-tacky-common/

Article about two women who live in the separate halves of a semi and get together to put lights around their house at Christmas. They have received a letter - probably from a neighbour - to say that their lights are "tacky and common". When reading the article I was expecting to see some flashing reindeers and perhaps an inflatable Homer Simpson, but they're actually quite restrained.

I do find lots of lights tacky and common though....

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SenseiWoo · 09/12/2016 13:12

So what if the lights are tacky and common? (Not that 'common' is a word I'd ever use).

MycatsaPirate · 09/12/2016 13:13

Dp is currently downstairs putting up more lights. So far we have four sets in the living room and three in the conservatory. It's fabulous!

We also have light up penguins.

It's lovely to see all the lights on the houses. Three years ago Dp had a really serious road accident and ended up in HDU just before Christmas. I was doing a 2 hour round trip twice a day to see him and seeing all the lights actually made the journey more bearable. Seeing the lights now reminds me of those long dreadful journeys full of uncertainty but also that he made it and came home on Christmas Eve.

So YABU. Grinch!

LagunaBubbles · 09/12/2016 13:14

Seriously dont get why people can be so judgmental and snobbish about what other people do.

Lorelei76 · 09/12/2016 13:18

A colleague told me mournfully that she wanted a fairy light reindeer outside her home and her teenage son said he'd never speak to her again if she did that. I know him a little so she said to me "maybe you can talk him round?"

I said, "er, no, if anyone talks him round I'll never speak to HIM again"

She reported back that he's very happy with my response. Grin

I wouldn't mind a lit up reindeer in the office but that's different....

Elphame · 09/12/2016 13:21

I hate them - they are a migraine trigger for me, especially the flashing ones. I don't go out much after dark in December Sad

Jaxhog · 09/12/2016 13:22

Plenty of grinches out today it seems. Bah, humbug to you all.

It's only once a year, so why not? It also isn't common. Some of the most expensive houses near us (3m+) have some fabulous flashing lights all over. So do the big NT properties. Makes up for the council turning most of the street lights out.

SoupDragon · 09/12/2016 13:25

I don't like tack

I do not think that word means what you think it means.

BurnTheBlackSuit · 09/12/2016 13:26

How are these two girls able to afford houses when they work part time as elves in a shopping centre. Yes, I am jealous.

Starlight2345 · 09/12/2016 13:28

We always going on a walk looking for best decorated house ( tackiest to some here)

You don't have to do it yourself..

Other people are free to spent there money how they want.

pictish · 09/12/2016 13:45

"You'd be happy to live opposite a house where every inch was covered with flashing Santa figures and reindeers then, Laguna?"

Not something that would bother me. Why would it bother you?

Prawnofthepatriarchy · 09/12/2016 13:50

I love Christmas lights. Tacky and common? God, some people are humourless gits.

It's always the over anxious social climbers who bang on about things being common, not realizing that their preoccupation is, of itself, distinctly downmarket.

BuntyFigglesworthSpiffington · 09/12/2016 13:53

I'm a-okay with a bit of tacky and common every so often.

I'd love for one of my neighbours to go on all out tack-tastic mode with the exterior Christmas lights.

wornoutboots · 09/12/2016 13:58

oh and at least 3 mums have told me they are disappointed that we haven't put ours on yet (they're still in the loft, hopefully decorating tomorrow)

so they obviously aren't upset at living opposite us. Nor are we that the neighbours did it for a few years (we are a bit let down that they've stopped though)

Sn0tnose · 09/12/2016 14:02

You'd be happy to live opposite a house where every inch was covered with flashing Santa figures and reindeers then, Laguna? I would. It's not something I'd choose to do to my house but it's not adding to my electricity bill and certainly not the most offensive thing a neighbour could do to the outside of their house.

The old "it's for charity" chestnut is wheeled out every year - no it's bloody not. If you were serious about raising money for charity there are lots more cost effective ways to do it and which don't piss off your neighbours who have to contend with cars and pedestrians gawping... Having said that my children get endless fun at this time of year trying to see who can spot the naffest house when we're out in teh car

Are you seriously annoyed because they're raising money for charity in a way that you don't find particularly cost effective? If a charity gets £50 that they wouldn't have got otherwise, I suspect they'd be quite happy with that. Not everyone is a marathon runner.

And I'd totally understand about the cars and people staring, but when you and your children are in your car and they're on the lookout for houses with the 'naffest' lights on, how many areas have been congested with traffic around those houses? How many hordes of pedestrians have you seen getting in everyone's way? Or do most people tend to do the same thing as you and your family and just look at them as they drive past?

YANBU to find them tacky. Everyone's taste is different and it would be a very boring place if we all liked the same. YABU (and making yourself sound rather like Hyacinth Bucket) to think of things in terms of how 'common' things are.

CaraAspen · 09/12/2016 14:03

Yes they are tacky and so is the wooden fence.

CaraAspen · 09/12/2016 14:06

I dislike any sort of outdoor decorative lighting. I try to avert my eyes. Some of those decorated houses are hideous.

CaraAspen · 09/12/2016 14:09

People have different tastes. I prefer not to decorate with lights. If you dislike that, too
bad; I won't swear in a mumsnetty way or try to call you "miserable".

Prawnofthepatriarchy · 09/12/2016 14:13

Anonymous letters, which is what the women in the OP received are far, far more tacky than any amount of Christmas lights. If you hate what your neighbours are doing, either speak to them or keep quiet.

LoisWilkersonsLastNerve · 09/12/2016 14:15

Yes prawn. I'm no fan of over the top decorations but what a nasty arse sending that letter.

Quills · 09/12/2016 14:16

Actually OP, the house you linked to is near me and the brothers do raise tens of thousands for charity each year, fully backed by the local community Biscuit

Live and let live.

Prawnofthepatriarchy · 09/12/2016 14:21

Live and let live, absolutely, Quills. One of my DBs lives in a town where a couple of streets do this. Apparently it started with a couple of houses and kinda spread over the years. It's so much fun, and raises money for charity.

I love over the top stuff. Give me neon, give me tinsel... Minimalism is boring, "safe" and lacks élan.

SmallBee · 09/12/2016 14:22

Oh God no! I like the twinkly shiny Christmas lights..... But I shop at Ocado! WHAT CLASS AM I??! Xmas ShockXmas Confused

UnbornMortificado · 09/12/2016 14:24

Oh I didn't realise it was for charity that'll teach me for skin reading Blush

I think that's lovely.

UnbornMortificado · 09/12/2016 14:24

*skim

LunaLoveg00d · 09/12/2016 14:26

The "tacky and common" wasn't my expression - it was what was written in the anonymous letter received by the people in the article in the OP.

I just happen to agree with the sentiment in general, but think the lights in the article aren't that bad actually.

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