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FretYeNotAllIsShiny · 07/12/2016 20:25

I work in retail, I'm a checkout person on a bank of tills - in a tine on the counter, not individual tills, think Primark style (though it's not Primark), so it's standing only. Earlier this year I started with backache and sore hips. It got so bad that I had several months off for it. My back had stiffened to such a degree that I couldn't walk properly. Or stand for any length of time.

Eventually I had some physio, she told me it was obviously easing and to go back to work. She suggested I ask my boss for breaks and to have a different job within the store. I went back and my boss agreed to let me have 15 mins during my 6 hour shift. I told him I needed to not be on the till for the entire shift.

Several months later and my hips and back are painful again. The breaks were allowed but by the time I was getting them, I'd be over four/ five hours into the shift and they didn't help. Or there would not be enough people instore and I would be unable to go. So they fell by the wayside. I'm still constantly on the till. By the time I'd been at work two hours today, I was in pain from my hips to ankles.

I can't cut my hours down further without having to sign on. I can't keep having time off, it's not fair to anyone and I don't get paid sick. I'm only contracted to 4 hours, maybe I could go down to that, sign on and look for an easier job? But I don't know if I'd be allowed without sanctions. To make matters worse, I'm a single parent. I've told them I'm not going in to tomorrow, but beyond that, I don't know what to do.

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aintnothinbutagstring · 07/12/2016 23:43

Have you had a blood test? Especially since you don't have previous history of back pain. Pernicious anaemia, inability to absorb vitamin b12 can cause a multitude of problems, one of them being issues with spine causing permanent nerve damage if not treated.

Longdistance · 07/12/2016 23:47

www.gov.uk/rest-breaks-work/overview

You are entitled to breaks, otherwise your employer is breaking the law.

FretYeNotAllIsShiny · 07/12/2016 23:53

I'm booked in for blood tests next week, one of them is anaemia.

Long-distance, I think the pertinent word in the law is 'over'. We don't do 'over' 6 hours.

Dontaskme - I think that might be worth looking into.

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Justmuddlingalong · 07/12/2016 23:54

The OP works 6 hour shifts. A 20 minute break is only given if the shift is over 6 hours, unfortunately. Xmas Sad

Dontaskmegoogleit · 08/12/2016 07:04

Hi shiny i hope all health checks come back all good and Good luck with the job search , fingers crossed for you.

FretYeNotAllIsShiny · 11/12/2016 00:41

Well,I texted the boss and told him I won't be in next week. I reckon my name is probably mud there at the moment. I've been shopping round the town centre today and my back has eased but my hip hasn't. Getting in and out of the car is painful. So I'm definitely thinking my back seizing up is probably more the bending, although is probably still affected by the dodgy hip. I'm wondering if it's ligament damage, the pain seems to be in the crease between leg and pubis, and across the top of the hip bone. In any case,I'm going back to the GP next week and I'll see what he thinks.

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biggles50 · 11/12/2016 08:31

Op if you've been checked and your back pain is chronic and moves around you might try a different approach. Read dr Sarno's 'healing back pain' and steve ozanich's 'the great pain deception'. 24 years of chronic neck pain has gone for me, you can find lots of info about their approach (an adjustment of the mind) on YouTube. They saved my life, for the price of a book, it's worth it. Good luck.

LadyVampire · 11/12/2016 10:02

www.gov.uk/rest-breaks-work/taking-breaks

FretYeNotAllIsShiny · 11/12/2016 12:57

LadyVampire we're only entitled if we work over 6 hours. We work bang on 6.

Biggles I'll look into those,but I'm believing more and more that it's the hip causing most of it. Cheers.

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