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To wish people wouldn't comment when I wear makeup!

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Elanrode · 07/12/2016 08:15

Looks wise, I am not hugely confident with good reason but have been trying to improve what nature gave me with a bit of foundation, blusher and mascara.

People keep PEERING at me and exclaiming how nice I look and wolf whistling Hmm and it's very annoying and embarrassing!

AIBU to request they STOP! (Good nature sly of course)

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shrunkenhead · 07/12/2016 08:23

I think it's the fact that you haven't normally worn it that's causing the interest. I had a similar experience. They'll get over it once they get used to it.
Those who plaster it on daily are only ever commented on when they aren't wearing any/playing the "I'm so ill -look no make up!" card.

lacklustremum · 07/12/2016 10:56

I'm a bit of a tomboy day to day and it's rare I wear make up, so when I do I get the same reaction.

I actually had a good mate announce loudly in a pub "Bloody hell Lack, you've got legs!" when I wore a dress for a birthday bash once , granted he'd only ever seen me in jeans, overalls or bike leathers at that point.

I think it's the surprise that bugs me a bit, like eermm yep

littlesallyracket · 07/12/2016 10:57

You're wearing makeup because you think it makes you look nice. People are confirming that it does. That doesn't mean that they don't think you look nice with no makeup - they almost certainly do! But they can see that you've made a change so they're commenting positively on that.

I am very shy and I know that attention can be so embarrassing - but just try to accept for compliments for what they are. I get comments when I don't wear makeup, or wear less than usual. My mum recently saw a photo of me with about one-tenth of my usual amount of slap and said 'Oh, you look really natural!' and my first thought was 'What, so usually I look terrible and overdone?' but she honestly didn't mean it in that way at all, she was just being nice.

Just smile, say thank you, and make a joke of it if you need to - I lost a lot of weight once and was really embarrassed by people commenting, but in the end I started saying 'Oh, thanks, yes, I've lost a bit ... I'm a bit embarrassed by compliments but I'm getting used to it!' and it was fine.

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