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To take clomid- Not prescribed!

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BlueCandle12 · 06/12/2016 12:20

Please don't give me shit!
Think of the desperation I feel.
Ttc no 2 for over 2 years now. I had a gynaecology appointment 4 months ago and the consultant I spoke to said if I can get hold of clomid then this will increase my chances. She said it as a passing comment. Fast forward to now I have got hold of some 50mg tabs and considering taking them as I'm due on my period tmrw.
I KNOW iabu but I've read up loads on it and I'm just so desperate now?!?

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AnyFucker · 06/12/2016 18:09

That sounds like crap advice, tbh, bummy. Get another opinion.

Clomid is only for if you are not ovulating. And a simple sperm test for your partner is certainly a good idea before you should even consider manipulating your own cycles with potent drugs.

quicklydecides · 06/12/2016 18:11

OP you could take it and it might work out ok as in no complications for you.
It might even work out great as in a baby!
Bit it could work out badly as in complications for you and needing to be admitted to hospital
So please, just go back to a consultant.
Go privately, they might be less rule-bound and more likely to prescribe it.
But if it is indicated, then they'll prescribe it surely!!

ClassmateHB · 06/12/2016 18:12

Clomid should only be prescribed once other tests are done - eg HSG to check tubes, blood tests to check ovulation, sperm tests on partner. It is not a wonder drug, it is dangerous if used incorrectly and for too long. I was lucky I fell pregnant on it, but I was very nearly hospitalised with hyperovarian syndrome which can be dangerous. You shouldnt ever take it without being monitored.

bummymummy77 · 06/12/2016 18:14

Hmm, I'll seek other advice. She also told me they'd be wanting to schedule me in for an early c section due to my age and he high risk of still birth. I took the clomid and ran!

HopefulHamster · 06/12/2016 18:14

I was given three months worth by a U.K. Fertility consultant (referred by GP) and they gave me no monitoring at all. Didn't work, mind.

AnyFucker · 06/12/2016 18:15

There are some cases where it might be indicated for ovulating women eg. those with a short luteal phase but unless you have been properly evaluated you would not know that.

AnyFucker · 06/12/2016 18:16

is this in the UK, bummy ?

user1468353179 · 06/12/2016 18:17

A friend's daughter almost died from over stimulation of the ovaries while taking Clomid from the fertility clinic. Be very careful.

AnyFucker · 06/12/2016 18:18

btw, I am a Clomid success x 2 but I was definitely not ovulating. It was not straightforward though.... I was overstimulated and I had a couple of miscarriages too.

bummymummy77 · 06/12/2016 18:25

No in the states. I think it's meant to make my crappy old eggs stronger.

Although it does make me nervous that I won't have any scans. Just the 21 progesterone test then he provea shot.

everythingtoplayfor · 06/12/2016 18:26

I get where you're coming from. Have you been referred to a fertility clinic, will they give it to you? I would also be tempted in your position, if I took it without the NHS I would at least get a private scan before ovulation to see what's what. If you have released 6 eggs at least you'd know and can avoid getting pregnant.

AnyFucker · 06/12/2016 18:26

how old are you, bummy ?

ElfOnMyShelf · 06/12/2016 18:33

I remember seeing professor winston on this morning doing a fertility phone in. If I remember rightly, clomid was originally developed as a contraceptive as it stopped ovulation. But obviously it had a happy side affect they soon realised.
He had quite strong views on doctors just dishing it out and not monitoring it.

bummymummy77 · 06/12/2016 18:33
honeylulu · 06/12/2016 18:34

Clomid doesn't improve egg quality though. It just makes you more likely to ovulate if you don't and to ovulate more than one egg in a cycle. Rates of miscarriage are higher in Clomid pregnancies perhaps because the drug forces you're body to ovulate eggs it would reabsorb as no good if a normal cycle.
I conceived several times on clomid- once twins- but miscarried every time.

Bless you I know how miserable it is trying and trying. I did eventually conceive (naturally) and ended up with a baby!

AnyFucker · 06/12/2016 18:34

Ok. At 39, you don't have too much time to be messing about with treatments that are unlikely to work. No harm in a 2nd opinion, I think

bummymummy77 · 06/12/2016 18:34

Yes op, where I am they advise a scan beforehand to your ovaries seem in healthy condition before you start. Not sure if this is the same in the UK.

honeylulu · 06/12/2016 18:35

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TTC01 · 11/09/2020 20:22

Hello,

I am trying to conceive after a misscarriage. I have PCOS and have extremely irregular cycle ranging 34-53 days.
I was always charting my bbt and i can say that i have always ovulated.
This month after a long cycle of 51days, my doctor has prescribed clomid 50 mg cycle day2-6, my day21 progesterone came less then 1 so didn’t ovulated. But its cycle day 45 and no period infact no sign of ovulation as my temperature is still low.

I observed spotting multiple times during cycle but spotted a little heavy from cycle day 37-42 but nothing like periods.
Extremely frustated and tensed, has anybody experienced this with clomid?
Does clomid causes late ovulation or will cause any adverse impact ?

Please suggestSad

StrawBeretMoose · 11/09/2020 20:38

@TTC01 you'd be better off starting a new thread in a relevant topic, there is a Conception topic and one for miscarriage and pregnancy loss where people might be able to help.

TTC01 · 11/09/2020 21:42

Thanks @StrawBeretMoose,
I ll created new thread.

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