28 wks pregnant with DD1; I've moved house since having DS1 so a different mw and GP practice to last time and a few things are making me think my care has been a bit lacking especially as I'm a slightly older mum (39) (and obvs have last time to compare it to).
At my 8wk check mw spent 15 mins putting my blue folder together and gathering all the various Bounty and NHS packs before getting round to the questions which she raced through without asking how I was. I had no concerns so thought nothing of it at time.
4 weeks after 12wk scan it occurred to me I hadn't had my Downs test results and then when I chased she blamed the hospital but a few days later they arrived in the post with a post-it from GP reception apologising for not sending them earlier (they were dated 2 weeks prior).
Now my biggest worry is that she isn't putting a copy of my results in my blue folder. She's taking my blood pressure etc but I have no record of any of mine or baby's stats to look at in the folder. It just occurred to me last night that when I take my urine sample in I don't see what she then does with it and again, nothing in records. I had a urine infection with DS1 that went unnoticed by mw as she hadn't checked the test results properly but this time round I don't even know if she's sending them for testing!
It's also just occurred to me that I haven't received my certificate for free dental checks although that's least of my worries just now.
I feel fine but probably not quite as great as I did with DS1.
I have an appointment next week but before I go in all guns blazing, am I being precious about this and how would you tackle it?