Aib an arsehole?

[abbinob]

I know the whole silent treatment thing is wrong.
But dp has pissed me off and I just really cant be fucked to talk to him. I can't be bothered to argue and I'm not sulking I just feel like I really can't be fucked to deal with him. I feel kind of horrible though.

He hasn't done anything major, just lots of small things (forgot to put ds''s gift in the advent calander last night even though I asked him to not forget about a million times. Went to fucking sleep again when I got back from work, leaving me to deal with ds and dinner etc even though he's had a busy day of doing fuck all, I'd been up since 5am and he's had the morning free as ds was at nursery!)

I feel really weird, I'm 24 weeks pregnant and usually when pissed off and pregnant I'd be angry but i just feel like I can't be bothered.
But I also feel like a massive twat because I feel like I'm being really mean not wanting to really talk to him or be around him?

Oh life's too short, OP. Go to him and say, "Apologise for being a twat and I'll talk to you." Hopefully he'll jump at the chance.

I just know that will cause an argument though

Wow, this relationship sounds a bundle of fun....is it worth trying to stop making each other miserable by talking? Or should you stop wasting time?

Oh well, then, I'd have a hot bath and an early night and hope he'd seen sense in the morning.

I'm not trying to make him miserable, but I'm fed up and feel a bit like a switch in my heads gone off and I can't care or get annoyed etc for some reason.
At most I feel a quite sad and embarrassed to tell him I'm upset with him because he won't care, or he will care until tomorrow when he'll forget to care again. It is very embarrassing basically asking someone to act like they actually give a shit/like you.

I don't know, I feel really childish though so hopefully after a nights sleep I'll have gotten over myself

If he genuinely makes you feel like he doesn't care; there's no relationship here.