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To think "Who do you think you are?" is a waste of money?

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moreslackthanslick · 02/12/2016 14:55

As a TV show?

Surely the only person interested in someone's family history would be that person and close relatives! Why this became a Tv Series is a bit beyond me, couldn't care less about Danny Dyer or Amanda Holden's forefathers!

AIBU?

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furlinedsheepskinjacket · 02/12/2016 16:24

def what the fox said

also mandy - ugh pretty much unwatchable

MitzyLeFrouf · 02/12/2016 16:27

I didn't bother with Amanda Holden's episode although I caught a two minute snippet. She really needs to step away from the fillers!

AlpacaPicnic · 02/12/2016 16:29

Two episodes were partially filmed in my workplace!
So I know how much filming and faffing about goes into exactly 1 minute of 'celeb staring at microfiche reader and pointing at it' and 'celeb shown document in squiggly writing'.
Many, many hours in fact...

Mondegreens · 02/12/2016 16:29

X-post, Mitzy. Yes, JH was not happy about his lack of Irishness, was he?

It seems a peculiarly English thing to waste energy wondering where we came from, because we have this lack of national pride that makes us consider ourselves quite dull. We conjure up ideas of the 'exotic' other and long to find some mere scrap of evidence to claim we are different, special, better than the heard. A Russian 8 generations ago. A minor Lord 16 generations ago. Oh, well, makes all the difference.

But I don't think this is what interests most people. I'm not English, and we have no family records at all. My parents weren't properly literate, and my grandparents weren't, and other than some mystery that left my paternal grandfather genuinely shocked and ashamed when he got documents to apply for his first passport in his sixties (he would never talk about it, but I suspect discovering his mother wasn't married to his absent, supposed sailor father, making him illegitimate), I know nothing about anyone before the two of my grandparents I knew. I would just like to know my great-grandparents' names and where they lived, and see if I could trace it a bit further back. They will all have been farm labourers on my mother's side, but I'd like to know where - unfortunately Irish records are far spottier than in England, and a lot were destroyed in 1922.

ElspethFlashman · 02/12/2016 16:30

Was that John Hurt? I had remembered it as Jeremy Irons which made sense as he had lived in Ireland for yonks. But if it was John Hurt, what was his deal??

The David Suchet one was v interesting as his family had changed their names and so he hadn't a bog where he came from.

The SJP I remember primarily because we got a nosy inside her big kitchen. Blush Mind you, was she descended from Salem? Or was that someone else?

AllMyBestFriendsAreMetalheads · 02/12/2016 16:30

I love WDYTYA.

The DD episode was good, but would have been much better if we could have learnt about Danny Dire without him actually being in it.

As someone descended from generations of agricultural labourers, it's the kind of genealogy I imagined!

Fink · 02/12/2016 16:32

The Danny Dyer episode is on Radio 4's More or Less at the moment.

LunaLoveg00d · 02/12/2016 16:33

LOVE IT!

I have researched my own family tree and so know exactly where the celebs are coming from - a story they want to substantiate, or a family secret to uncover. I do think you can pick up some tips about where to search records or start looking online, but it's all very much "Amanda has gone to the National Archives in Kew" but not much explanation about what records are kept, where they're held and how they're accessed. The American version is very obviously sponsored by Ancestry and pretty much tells viewers to start there.

Can't stand Danny Dyer and his professional Geezer persona, but his ancestry was very interesting. Amanda Holden;s story was interesting too.

coldcanary · 02/12/2016 16:35

You have to watch the right episodes, some of them are an advert for scrapping the license fee and so cringeworthy (looking at you Jane Horrocks!) and some are brilliant tv like Chris Moyles and Stephen Fry. The American one's are the same, Jim Parsons was fascinating!
I'm looking forward to Greg Davies this series, I'm a bit of a fan!

Pooka · 02/12/2016 16:36

The Jeremy paxman, Jerry springer and Stephen fry ones were very good too.

Allovertheworld16 · 02/12/2016 16:38

I love it, always have. I find it fascinating whoever the subject.

JustGettingStarted · 02/12/2016 16:39

Kim Cattrall's was good and so was Jerry Springers (he wanted to learn of his parents family, who had died in the Holocaust.)

ginghamstarfish · 02/12/2016 16:39

Yes, a waste of (our) money, sending minor 'celebs' off and paying for all the research etc. Would be much better to make programs about more general historical topics, research the history of a village/town, or suchlike, that would be of more interest to more people. Why is everything on TV deemed somehow better by featuring a minor celebrity or has-been?

ElspethFlashman · 02/12/2016 16:40

Oh yes the Jerry Springer one! Wasn't that a very sad one? Was it a concentration camp?

thisisafakename · 02/12/2016 16:41

And Danny Dyer being related to Edward IV and Thomas Cromwell

But it was like 22 generations ago. How many thousands of other people would be technically classed as being related to them? I think it was Edward III actually, but not sure. I like history shows- maybe it's my dislike of Danny Dyer that clouded my judgement on this episode.

moreslackthanslick · 02/12/2016 16:42

14 series?!! I thought it was on about the second!

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Five2ate · 02/12/2016 16:46

It could be an ordinary 'nobody' and I'd be interested in watching. I find anyone's history fascinating, all the twists and turns and unexpected thibgs that pop up. On top of that you can learn a lot about history, particularly in a social context.

Each to their own though

Mondegreens · 02/12/2016 16:46

John Hurt lived in Carlow for a while, years back, close to an old friend of mine - we used to run into him in the pub the odd time.

Jeremy Iron's pink castle is not far from where I grew up - I don't know if they still live there, tbh. I must ask my mother. He used to wander about like an extremely RP tramp and playing the fiddle really badly at local seisiuns.

Mondegreens · 02/12/2016 16:47

Sorry, that was to Elspeth. John Hurt in person also resembled an extremely well-spoken tramp, I should say.

EverySongbirdSays · 02/12/2016 16:49

I remember Jeremy Irons as being near pitifully desperate to have Irish roots, and eventually finding a very distant connection and boasting about it in a pub to the locals and wanting to die for him.

MrsJayy · 02/12/2016 16:50

I enjoy itdepending on the celeb some are a bit meh some are fascinating Billy Connolys grt grt.... grandmother was Indian he was delighted and Danny dyers was brilliant I dont think its a waste of money its an interesting programme

ElspethFlashman · 02/12/2016 16:51

Thanks Monde that makes more sense. Still a bit precious though. Hmm

EverySongbirdSays · 02/12/2016 16:51

What made Danny Dyer's so hilarious/brill was his own reactions, responses to the experts, throughout the episode

wasonthelist · 02/12/2016 16:52

YANBU. I (fully legally) gave up my TV licence some time ago as there is so little (on any channel) I want to watch.

MrsJayy · 02/12/2016 16:54

Danny Dyer and his geezer chatter was very funny,

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