So dp and I have had a few days of work it's been lovely. I aranged to meet a friend for coffee today. It's A coffee turns into wine friend which dp knows. He has someone he worked with who has been going through a tough time I never this met person but dp invited him to our home today. No problem to me told dp would be home later maybe a bit sqiffy as always with coffee wine friend. Get home about 8ish dp here with friend. I havnt eaten so whip up quick chicken tray bake for us all. as I am cooking can here dp friend making remarks about me being out today and being squiffy. Also just chatting got the feeling he thinks women have there place he is from a diffrent culture and older and I have tolerated this in the past from others when i shouldn't have. We got into discussions and it got heated as very degrortyry to women and me. dp did stand up for me. I am tolerant and accepted it' down to upbringing and culture but he went too far as in dismissing my dds at uni and there futures. I lost it and told him to leave my home now. dp could see how angry and upset I was. The thing is he lives the other side of London and he was meant to have stayed the night. He had a drink so was a bit drunk. But I feel I would have let myself and my dds down if I had let this man stay. dp showed him out and told him to go.it's a long way home for him